I was wondering, for those of you who have settled down, is there a past relationship that still haunts you, and why? It can be one you wish you had done better, differently, feel you still don't have closure with, or wish you had maintained instead of where you're at now.
2006-11-10 14:42:21 · 19 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i left my wife of 14 yrs for the other woman, who now is putting me thru the emottional wringer. i wish i had taken the time to talk with my ex, seek counseling and kept my penis in my pants
2006-11-10 14:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex still haunts me because I have to see him when he picks up our son for visitation a few times a week. I cant say I have any regrets, I like to turn it all around and say its been a learning experience, from the drama I learned how petty people are, that friends are not always friends, and like to lie to gain from other peoples pain. I also realize that we wer from two different worlds and that no matter how much you care about someone, sometimes its just not enough.
I also learned that you dont have to feel trapped, jealous, and anxious in a relationship, I am engaged and all things that I thought I did wrong in my past, seem to be working well now, which means I just needed to find the right person to compliment me and complete me, while at the same time, staying me, and not conforming to another persons wants just to be wanted.
2006-11-10 15:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by rottie110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry whatever! you are going to be ok lol. Just due to the fact she can have slept with extra persons than you've gotten, doesn't suggest whatever in any respect! It might had been crappy intercourse. You most often deliver her anything, no different man has. Every man is exceptional on the subject of intercourse, and so is each woman. Don't fear approximately a factor! You don't have anything to are living as much as.
2016-09-01 10:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by sirolli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my past relationship is my hubby. Two and the same man. I don't think I could have done things differently nor him. But I am sometimes haunted by that man. Though he is not the same.
2006-11-10 15:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a relationship and have not settled down yet. Not sure about the regrets, but I certainly learned from my past relationship.
2006-11-10 14:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by hhfe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thirty years ago I met the man of my dreams. We were together for two years until he received a promotion and moved off to Chicago. He didn't take me with him, even though he knew I'd have gone along. To this day... I still miss him... and I wonder how my life might have been different if only he loved me as much as I had loved him. :-(
2006-11-10 15:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was married for 10 years to a good man and we were very compatible in most ways, but my OCD drove him to stay away from home and drink, and we divorced. And I regret that we are not even friends now, because his new wife wouldn't let him be.
2006-11-10 14:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Oghma Gem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everybody goes through this. that one love you will never forget , always wonder how it would of been. wondering how he is doing now. and yes maybe with some regret life didn't go in a different direction for us. but i would not ever trade my husband today for the memory of the guy in my past.
2006-11-10 14:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I have only been in one relationship and I am now going to marry him. I would however like to change a few things about his past.
2006-11-10 14:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I always felt that my ex was the true love of my life, even though I am married now. I always wish he really knew how much I really loved him, instead of me never telling him how I felt.
2006-11-10 14:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by T J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋