It seems as if no matter how good the women looks it doesnt do me any good. Just for a few seconds then its over. How can i stop?
2006-11-10 14:41:54 · 27 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You cant. Its a disease that will follow you to your grave.
2006-11-10 14:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You describe what appears to be a learned response (conditioned reflex, if you will -- with my apologies to Dr. Pavlov) and this will have deleterious effects on your interpersonal relations if you cannot gain control.
Achieve sensate focus by laying off (again, a poor choice of words) for a while. It doesn't sound like you're too enthusiastic with your automanual sex life anyway ...
Then, instead of this 'mad rush for the prize' compulsion you describe shoot (omigawd) for a slow and steady wins the race approach.
Been there, done that and now my women can't get enough of me. It's not what I have so much as how I use it and my projection of unselfishness towards my partners which endears me to them.
Slam bammage thank you mammage just doesn't do it with the ladies anymore. They have things they need handled too. (I cannot BELIEVE it ... another double entendre).
It's not just a destination, it's a journey.
2006-11-10 22:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes masturbating takes away the desire of a woman. In other words if you are doing that all the time and you know what you like it becomes so habit forming that a womwn can't match what you do yourself as far as satisfying yourself. It's the same with women. They can take care of what their body wants and a man can't always do that. So, they say to stop for a while and see how it goes. that's a personal choice. Either you want a relationship and to have and enjoy sex with hwe or you just take care of yourself. So what!
2006-11-10 23:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've found that when I avoid situations where I feel able to masterbate, I simply avoid that or when I have to go ahead with that situations, I always say that I have to focus on something else. Of course I do every once in a while.
2006-11-11 00:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not sure why you wish to stop, its healthy and a part of life. but it can be addictive, and there is no answer out there besides mentally overcoming. its 100% in your head, you just have to reamain persistent like in the movie "40 days and 40 nights".
2006-11-10 23:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by sakic_cikas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is no good then why do it? You have some guilt that is interfering with the goal. Use your imagination as you are supposed to and it will satisfy.
Oh, and you cannot stop. No guy in the history of recorded history has been able to. So make the most of it.
2006-11-10 22:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your question does NOT make any sense as to what you want.
Do you want to stop masterbating OR last longer during sex?
You might want to re-write it or be more specific.
Good luck. Pops
2006-11-10 22:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm with Pops, not sure what you're asking for? If you think you masturbate to much then you may be a sex addict. But if you don't last that long use the advice of delaying your orgasm.
2006-11-10 23:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by cameron lally cscs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a healthy thing to do. it keeps the works running. if you are talking about only being able to last a few seconds before orgasm, then you need to work on that...jack off till you are on the verge, and then keep yourself there carefully. dont push yourself over the edge, just maintain your level. in time you will last longer.
2006-11-10 22:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Raise your hands. And keep them like that for an hour or two or ten. Check the results afterwards.
2006-11-10 23:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Borat2® 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to stop ?, so what if it last only a few seconds, I didn't know there was a time limit......
2006-11-10 23:52:15 · answer #11 · answered by mark22059 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋