When I first meet this guy we were very young. When I say young I'm speaking middle school ****. The first day that we laid eyes on one another we feel in love. He moved to another state, but we always kept in touched. As the years has gone by we both have had kids and both were married we both are going through a divorce. For the last six months we both have been speading time together. We both has realized that we never stop loving and caring for each other. Now he wants me and my child to relocate were he is. So my question to you is do you follow your heart are do you wait and she was life holds for you.
2006-11-10 14:39:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i met my know husband 4 years before we started dating....and i knew i was going to marry him....my friends thought i was crazy...but our paths kept on crossing....we finally went out together and now we are married wit 2 kids....so i am a true believer of love at first sight......and those that dont believe it....dont believe it because they have never experienced it.....go with your heart.....
2006-11-10 14:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I am faced with decisions like this I think what would it be like if I had 5 minutes left to live. What things would I wish I would have done or what regrets do I have. Sometimes we forget thinking with our hearts keeps us young. You only life once- and if you dont do this now..it will always be a "what if". And if you do go and it doesnt work..at least you tried. Everytime you do something different...you grow alittle.
Live like there is no tomorrow.
Aside from that- no question I believe in love at first site. I finially knew what my Mom meant when she would say " you'll know" when you meet the one. I knew the minute my 'one' touched my hand..he was the one I was meant to be with. The minute he kissed me nothing else in the world matttered. Even today i exactly how the kissed felt and how his hands felt on the small of my back as he held me close. No kiss..no touch has ever came close. So yes...there is a reason why your hearts came back together ...because they are meant to be. Dont fight it...be happy you were lucky enough to find it.
2006-11-10 22:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What life holds is opportunities....such as the one facing you right now. I'm not saying to jump in blindly but it sounds like you've known this guy for quite some time. You've been friends for years...seen each other get married, have kids, get divorced, etc. Maybe it's time to see what may be with this guy. Is there a specific reason you should rule it out? If not, follow your heart. The window of opportunity has opened for the two of you. Maybe now is the time. Go with your instincts. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 22:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the first part of your question, Yes I believe in love at first sight, talk about getting hit between the eyes!
I think you can do both, but not with out some planing, by both parties. Several issues should be considered, such as your child, your profession, and yes even plan B, if something should go wrong.
2006-11-10 22:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i do believe in love at first sight.My first love was amazingly beautiful!!!I fell for gorgeous eyes and awesome guy inside, but the feeling was instant and so strong, i could not compare such LOVE to anything else i have encountered in life.Just he is the whole universe.I think after this feeling , i realized if i die tomorrow, I'll be happy because I have experienced such a thing!!
IN your case, I would relocate BUT you have to also turn your heart off and THINK what that move is going to do to your life and your children.Just think,love is awesome but you have to be practical at the same token.Are you sure he will make you and your kids happy?
2006-11-10 23:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bonanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love at first sight. And I think if you feel in your heart this man loves you and you know you love him, you shouldn't give it up. You will always have to wonder what might have been. You were young when you first met and if you knew you loved each other then and your paths have crossed again then take advantage of the turn your life has taken. Good luck.
2006-11-10 22:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school, I met the girl I wanted to marry. We went steady in high school and after we graduated, we drifted apart and both of us married different spouses. I never forgot her, and she said she never forgot me. After our respective spouses died, we got back together after not seeing each other for 35 years and we have been happily married for 10 years. Of course, there is much more to this story, but it proves that true love will win out in the end. Just follow your heart and all will work out in the end.
2006-11-10 22:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I Had a Dream
Have you ever looked at someone?
Then dreamed, of how it would be.
To live and share their love and memories,
forever as a couple and as a family.
But yet, these people we come across,
haven’t a clue, that your dream was knocking at their door.
They go on about their daily lives,
never knowing that your dream was so much more.
It’s been said, you can fall in love at first sight,
and I guess I have to agree.
Because first time that I saw you, and dreamed.
my heart, belonged to only thee.
So if I had a dream, that I was able to give,
I would give it to you, just so you knew
What it’s really like, to see you in my dreams,
and feel the beauty of our love, when l dream of me and you.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-10 22:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check it out, if you don't go for it now, the chance may not come up again, be cautious, make sure you both can somehow spend time w/each others kids, then follow your heart, if he is your soulmate, do not miss that oppurtunity, true love only comes once in a lifetime,,,don't live w/regrets and don't look back and say, he's the one i let get away, what if?,,,,,,,,,go get him girl!!!!!!!!!!good luck peaceout,bilrokz
2006-11-10 22:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by bill p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do believe love can happen at first sight it happened to me and i have been with the person for over ten years.
2006-11-10 23:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋