Why do women blame men...?

Question

for everything. Its really quite pathetic. Women always start the fights. It's always the women. It is IMPOSSIBLE not to piss a woman off. And when I say this, women say "NO, women get mad because men do stupid things." Well since a womans definition of stupid changes on a day to day basis, its pretty impossible not to eventually do something stupid. The truth is, women have been so conditioned by the feminists to cry and moan about everything, that not even perfection in a man would make them happy. And watch, no women here will try and discredit my claims with words. They will either call me the "typical man" or they will call me childish names.

See, told you!!! lol

Answer 1

Sounds like you just got in a fight with your woman. And you are putting your foot in your mouth by saying women always start the fight. Grow some balls! All people do stupid things. Men and women alike. Sounds like you live w/ a feminist!!

Answer 2

I'm sorry that someone had angered you earlier today. I am a woman but for the most part I was raised up by my father, so I may not view the world as a "typical woman."

I do tend to notice that some (but not all) women within my age group and perhaps 10 years older do harbor some form of resentment towards men. Speculations is about the most I can offer as to why, but it's known that during this time women are trying to find potential mates and often times fail. Like any normal person, anger needs to be vented, and once more like any normal person, quite a few women may vent in harmful ways. Whatever angers a person tends to be the focus of their anger. As with unsuccessful women, they're frustrated with their pursuits of men. So they associate men as being the cause of their frustration. Naturally, you won't have anything good to say about what is angering you. However, the real reason to a woman's failure in dating might be her. There are numerous reasons for failed dates, but some of the things that come to mind are: not knowing what you want in a mate, not knowing how to talk to the opposite gender (may not know how a man thinks--men and women think differently about life), might be overcompensating for a viewed insecurity and thus repels the man, and they might "give" too much too fast (such as problems).

There's no need to be so harsh on women, they are only human too. But I can understand you side as well. They shouldn't be so hard on men. It's a two-way street for the genders, and if a man and a woman is to ever get together and mean it, they're going to have to give and take. That includes giving clues about what you want and taking hints from your mate or spouse about what they want, and then trying to compromise.

Answer 3

I feel that men and woman both have there share of problems. I think that men start just as many fights as woman. I think that woman are a little childish and if things don't go there way they get pissed of and sometimes I think that a woman depends on their spouse way to much. Sometimes enough is enough. The problem with us woman is that we remember everything you did or have done or what you are going to do and we use that in arguments and that is what we do we use everything that you have ever done to get even or to start a fight because we are having a bad day ourselves so see all woman aren't bad some of us can at least admit when we are wrong and yes I am a woman.

Answer 4

As a relationship psychologist, i'm continuously encountering circumstances the place there's a issue with a relationship - And 9 situations out of 10, the guy is blamed. yet truthfully, the two events have carried out something to harm their bond, and whether between the companions has been untrue - you would be stunned to locate that there is a reason, and it comprises their companion. i think of adult males are turning out to be a bad attractiveness in relationships, because of the fact they are greater outwardly sexual.. much less 'romantic and open', and have in no way been given of challenge at being the only which brings sensitivity or kindess into the relationship. the female is considered because of the fact the delicate, being concerned area - the guy being the hardworking, direct area. And in todays society, I frequently locate women folk carry such extreme standards for adult males that those grow to be unrealistic, and unexpectedly problems upward thrust up. those days a learn grew to become into carried out surrounding this, and romantic video clips would desire to be the reason! Becuase video clips and television depict those suitable, problemless relationships.. that's basic to forget, relationships take artwork on the two factors.

Answer 5

YOUR RIGHT !!. But the bigger man will keep his mouth shut, stand firm and strong. They SAY they want men that "cry" but it is not so. Women feel safer around men of strong character. I have a saying which fits most women now days. I call them "Man Haters". They were treated bad somewhere along the line and now hate ALL men. I read once that It is better for a man to llive on the roof than in the house with a bitter and argumentive woman. (newspapers were designed for men to hide behind. (-; )

Answer 6

It's funny, because my fiancee RARELY pisses me off. I think the problem here is.. you have a problem with pissing females off.. Your attitude possibly? Because, in all honesty, I would have a hard time not getting pissed off at you if you act in real life, any way similiar to the way you come across in your questions/answers, reguardless of my gender. Just my opinion though.

And by the way, I just had my brother come over to the computer and read your question (and no he's not a 5 years old.. straight A college student...quite smart) and he just admitted that men come up with stupid ideas constantly, and if it weren't for women, men would be killing themselves off more rapidly, because the voice of reason was not there to tell them that what they are doing is risky.

I just thought maybe you would like to hear from both sides of the gender pole.

Answer 7

I'll be surprised if they don't try to get your question deleted. About a week ago a woman posted a question stating all the woes of the world are the fault of men, making derogatory statements about men, and adding "no offense" before and after, as if saying that actually meant that no offense was meant. I pointed out in my response that each of the woes she applied to men could be applied to women, that she should check her history before she spouted such statements and labeled them "truth", and that I took offense to her offensive statements, mainly because she meant them to be offensive. She complains about my response and my answer got deleted, but I complain about her question in return and it is still up. What garbage.

Oh, if no woman likes my answer, no offense.

Edit: BTW, the feminist movement taught women to demand more rights, but it didn't teach them to accept the responsibilities that come with additional rights. So they want it all but don't feel they have to give up anything to have it. Since someone has to shoulder the responsibilities, then they try to place them on the men. So if something goes wrong, or goes wrong in their minds, then the man is to blame.

Oh, and no offense women.

Answer 8

You know what... you're right. And I am a woman, no not a gay one. Women have a definite fault in life and claim it is their perogative. I feel sorry for you men who try and try and try and put up with bitchin' when you get home, then you wanna leave for a while, and boom it's worse when you get back... it's like your thinking "what did I come home for?" Sorry we are like that, some of us, and that we blaim it on hormones and being mothers, when most gals just need to take the initiative to control themselves. How's that for ya?

Answer 9

OK. I am a woman, and yes women can be petty, snappy and really love a good fight. However men can also block out important things (things that women think are important), and sometimes just dont hear or care about the things we say. Is it frustrating yes, because we think differently, need to talk about lots of stuff, and need constant reassurance, its our nature.

Men prefer to not talk about it, and not explain their reasons so we figure that they are being jerks and really dont care. Honestly I think its just a communication problem because men and women think so differently.

Unfortunately (of course being a man you will automatically go into fight or flight defensive mode) We have these hormones, that are YES scientifically proven to make us crazy at times, and remember dont ever tell us this, because we will freak out on you, because ITS just not true LOL....

(the following is dramatic view of a womens reasons to be crazy, and trust me its not far from true lol)

Women are creatures of habitually changing our minds, being moody and yes getting pissed off

when you come home park your butt on the couch turn on tv and chill out, because you worked an 8hr day and are tired, because your job is more important then ours, while we get home from the office after picking the kids up from daycare( man still on the couch), stopping at the grocery store, putting the stuff away, getting the kids to do their homework, taking a moment in slip into something more comfortable then dress shoes and pants, cook dinner(man comes and eats), clean up ( man back on couch), check the homework( man yells at kids from couch), run the bath tub, bathe the kids, play with them for a little bit( man joins in for a minute then realizes he missed a good touchdown in the game on tv, returns to couch), get them ready for bed, then do a few loads of laundry and finally at about 9 if we are lucky to watch tv and share a few words with you(man still on couch).

In the three hours since you got home, you got up, peed, scratched your ***, yelled at the kids, ate dinner, and plopped back down on the couch, and then OH YAH you are totally confused as to why the woman is pissed off and doesnt want you to grab her boob and run off for a lovey romp in the sack....


LOL..... You are right women are difficult, and we do get pissed for stupid reasons, but at the same time, I think men just dont get it sometimes....

Answer 10

I agree with you a lot... Im a woman and I can agree that a lot of women ***** or whine for no reason... I try not to be like that just cause of stereotypes of woman... speaking your mind and being a bitchy woman and to different things... Both sexes do stupid ****... I can take blame if I do something wrong, why shift ur blame on a man? Just own up to it right?