Ok... so my bf didnt want to have sex anymore and I wasnt excactly YAY about that, but I didnt say anything to him or dump him or anything. so a few weeks later.. I was really horny and he knew it.. and he said " Im gonna go be evil now" and he started making out with me and pressing against me... then he started moving his hands down my sides and I asked him if we could have sex and he said we was planning to but i ruined his mood.. and started laughing
and then he pushed me against a wall and kept making out with me and I told him I wanted him in me and he said " ok time to stop" and he moved away and started laughing.. it was almost cruel!
how can I get him to stop torturing me like this?
2006-11-10 14:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sounds like a control issue and he is getting a kick out of playing with you like a yo-yo.
Find a new boyfriend.
FAST
You should be running from that guy like the house is on fire.
2006-11-10 14:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Trailcook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him to stop torturing you because what he's doing is abusive. Withholding sex and intimacy from your partner is abusive. If you don't believe me, check out the checklists for abuse on the abused women's websites.
My suggestion to you is to walk away, and find someone who will treat you with more dignity.
All the best!
2006-11-10 15:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it sounds like a control thing. Just be sure to do the same to him (if you keep him around) when he decides he wants you. Not saying dump him because he won't but do if all he wants is to enjoy the control. You are the woman, He is suppose to be the one "cut off". LOL!!
2006-11-10 14:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by li'lbit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let him start - then there is nothing to "stop". You want something only he can give. He doesn't want to give it to you, but dangles it in front of your nose.
He is being abusive, and you recognize it, and it is not a healthy relationship. Leave or kick him out.
2006-11-10 15:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this.....He's not torturing you, you are!
You are doing this to yourself!......you are not controlling yourself...so why are you handing your control to someone else?
Feel better now? No, of couse not, so take back control of your own body, and your mind, and your words......If you want a relationship, have one....if not...then ...move on.
Everyone deserves to be in a Rocking Relationship...otherwise hang it up!..........sorry this is not what you wanted to hear...but sometimes we need a little truth!
2006-11-10 14:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds evil. yes. That's absolutely unacceptable and rude.
2006-11-10 15:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a sex toy
2006-11-10 14:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would let himknow how you feel. Sounds like he is just teasing you. Give him a dose of his own medicine!!
2006-11-10 16:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are being too easy for him. He knows it. I think he was testing you and you failed. You need to break it off with him. When you find someone new, don't be so easy.
2006-11-10 14:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him.
2006-11-10 14:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by dragonkisses 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋