help me feel so much better? Why does seeing that other women who understand my pain actually make me feel better?? Seeing your "I hear you" answers to my "vapid emotionless wasteland" post really helped me to feel better. Maybe its like, I want him to hear me, I want him to respond to me. And he just doesn't know how. He's so damn slippery.
Thanks ladies who understand, it really helps me alot. Feel free to go ahead and vent all you like - it helps me to read it and I wish I could give 10 points to everyone who understands where I'm at right now.
2006-11-10 14:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think venting is a good think to do, whetehr itson here. talking to a relative or friend, or writing it downin a diray or even a sheet of paper. i just did it a few days ago! if you look at my questions lolol. some peoplg gave me good advice whiel others were hardsh but who cares! it always feels better to knwo that its somewhere else, dont knwo why but i always feel better after having a fight or soemthign and writing it downin a diary. =)
2006-11-10 18:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very well then. I love my hubbers, he normally stays at home. He went out with the guys the other day, kinda rare so I had no problem with it. Today however he is out with them again, and I kinda got a funny vibe about what is going on over there (at Mr. Ws place) anywho I am usually correct in my 6th sense if you will. No matter who it is in my life I known when something is wrong, I even have a successful career in this type of field. Anywho I will know what is up soon, good or bad..we all have are concerns some may be stronger then others, but all the same feeling inside... some doubt I suppose
2006-11-10 22:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by haloperidol4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Granted that venting can be helpful and venting same sex is safer for a relationship ---
why aren't you intentionally training him. Of course he is sliippery. What would you expect from a guy thoroughly trained by out society to be a block of non-transparent testerone which may or may not link to a brain? Give us a break and give us a clue.
When I got sick, I had to mop the floor. REVELATION!
2006-11-10 22:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, men never hear what you say until its to late. I could fall down the stairs with a shotgun in my hand, have it go off, pulling the whole roof down and my husband would walk in the room and say some thing like " honey I don't want to remodel the living room again, we just remodeled it last year". or " can you hold the noise down, the games about to come back on". but n e way.....I hear you.
2006-11-10 22:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women are much more into communication and feelings than men are. That's why we talk about our feelings so much, and why it helps us to know we aren't alone in feeling that way. It's called validation.
2006-11-10 22:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you feel better, cuz you have to tell someone.... and telling your man doesn't do you any good, so that only leaves other woman to vent to.
2006-11-10 22:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man you are pathetic. lol.
2006-11-10 22:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋