It seems hard for me to understand my feelings to a cool sci teach. I'm shy telling this to my friends so nobody knows it...
2006-11-10 13:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Ashlyn_47 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's okay to have a crush on your teacher. A feeling is a feeling, not a sin. It is not, however, okay to act on it.
2006-11-10 13:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation that you are.
From what I can tell, there is nothing wrong with having these types of feelings towards someone in an authoritative position in your life. Many people experience them towards an educator or other people that they know. Everything is fine as long as you do not act upon them--a child having romantic relations with an adult is by most people's (mine included) standards very inappropriate. The feeling will probably pass in a little while, relax. :)
if you really need to tell someone, you could try telling a friend who is not in his class, if possible. Otherwise, a journal could be helpful, not only for crushes and things, but for other experiences that you go through. It gives you a safe outlet.
2006-11-10 17:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember one Math teacher I had a crush on and I always hated math.She got pregnant and than got married. I wonder if he stayed after school too? She used to always put the chalk in her mouth. I think she was a smoker anyway. As far as crushes go you'll most likely have many crushes like a kid in a candy store who can't decide. What's really hard is to have many who have a crush on you and play dirty games with each other. It used to make me sick.(er) Two girls in grade school broke my window on the porch because my dad said I wasn't home when I was.One girl used to prank call and tell my dad to tell me I had a free ham at the post office.He fell for it too.She just wanted me to meet her at the post office.(Ugh)
2006-11-10 14:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are a normal part of adolescence. You are experiencing different feelings and emotions that are all a part of growing toward adulthood. The confusing feelings will pass. Talk about them with a friend who you trust. Chances are they feel or have felt the same way about someone.
2006-11-10 14:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on a teacher and nobody ever has to know.
I'll bet 80% of students has a crush on a teacher before they finish their formal education in college.
2006-11-10 13:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anybody can blame you for having the feelings that you do. However, as you know it's an impossible love. You will get over it, I promise. You don't need to tell anybody, if you don't want to. Keep your eyes open for what else the world has to offer.
2006-11-10 13:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is okay, just don't pursue the teacher or go too far with it. Your friends may be able to see this from you already without you telling them.
You are normal.
2006-11-10 13:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's totally properly. Lol, I had a overwhelm on a instructor as quickly as, yet she grew to become right into a lady and she or he grew to become into incredibly youthful. each and every of the adult men enjoyed her, too. yet yeah, no longer something incorrect with having a overwhelm on a instructor. as long as you do no longer act on it xD.
2016-12-17 08:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, as long as nothing happens. Your friends might think that it's weird, but the heart wants what it wants. Like I said, though, nothing can happen.
2006-11-10 13:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Forrest Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People especially women have strong feelings for people that take care of them or help them, especially when there is real close one on one attention
2006-11-10 13:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋