There is this girl that lives down the hall from me. She's beautiful. I really want to get to know her. I really want her. The thing is, the only time I see her is in passing. I've never even had a conversation with her. Everytime I do see her, she's on the way to something, or I'm on my way to something. I don't even know if she's into girls, but I think she is. Everytime I see her, I try to make eye contact, but she seems like she's nervous and won't look at me. I could be reading, but the way she acts around me is like when you have a crush on someone, and are nervous about being around them. I would throw her up against a wall, but I think that may be a little too forward. What I'm looking for is a way to get close to her. I need to get to know her, talk to her, but I can't. Tonight, I'm kicking myself because I was going to go to a gala tonight, but decided not to, so later, I see that she's going. I could punch a hole in a wall! Someone help me. PLEASE!
2006-11-10 13:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by Ha Ha! 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think I'm scaring her by being intense. I barely even talk to her, and when I do, its about regular stuff. Simple things, like I would a friend, but she won't bite.
2006-11-10 13:16:19 · update #1
the fact dat u not goin to the gala might not be such a bad thing cuz 2morrow wen u see her comming your way then u get to have a reason to stop her by simply sayin hi..how are u..how waz the gala since i didnt go?..then she will tell u about her experience then u tell her about yours and dat how u start to get to kno her and next time you guys could go togeter and just show her a good time and wat u all about!..the key is to just go with the flow dont force any topic into the conversation. i hope it works out!!
2006-11-10 13:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Gurly, you REALLY need to make sure she is into dating women because if shes not you are going to scare the hell outta her and she won't ever want to be around you. Find someone to talk to her to find out or just talk to her like you'd talk to a FRIEND and see if she is interested in the same sex. If you find out that she is interested in women then treat her like you'd treat any crush....I wouldn't recommend throwing her up against the wall (thats the hormones talking, lol) I would just approach her gently...after all this isn't a MAN we're talking about its a sensitive woman with sensitive feelings. Good Luck and I hope everything works out!!
2006-11-10 21:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the idea of you throwing her up against the wall, although if she's not into you, you might end up visiting a police station. so maybe you should just be straight forward and ask her first, what do you have to loose. if she likes you she will be flattered if not then you can stop wasting time thinking about her.
2006-11-10 22:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by whatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be calm and be yourself at all times dont make it to obvious that you wanna get with her becuz then she mite think that you are a phyco so be calm whateva you do calm down with the anger problems just chill and relax and sonner or later she will come to her senses and chose you trust me
2006-11-11 08:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up right in front of her and tell her that you want to make friends with her. See what is the response then decide what to do next. If she agrees to be friends with you, then date her. Good luck to you.
2006-11-10 21:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's some pretty passionate lust you got going on there! Start with a Hi there! at least. Put a note on her door, asking her over for coffee some weekend. Good luck.
2006-11-10 21:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to scare her with an overly aggressive attitude..you wont win her that way.. you need to start slow, whether we like it or not..when you do see her in the hall, just stop her for a sec and say hi, that you've wanted to say that for a while and ask her if she'd like to go for coffee or something for a girl chat...whatever you do, dont be aggressive..you may scare her..good luck..
2006-11-10 21:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gala! Just go up to her and talk to her... although, I don't recommend asking her out until you're sure she's lesbian or bi. Try to talk to her, get to know her a bit. You never know, she just might be. ;)
2006-11-10 21:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Donna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you do make eye contact, be ready and simply wink! Then see what happens!
2006-11-10 21:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man, u'r like ???? Just go and initiate a conversation.
2006-11-10 21:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Savor_Savvy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋