theres this girl right she would talk to me and give me her number and tell me we should study then i called too much. so we pretty stopped talking..she NEVER said she had a bf then i kept calling which I shouldnt have when she never called me back...until to this day i called which will be the last one...this guy called and said who r u....u called my girl i said i got the wrong number and he said yea...then i hung up before he was done talking ...I don't think its my fault to talk to her but it is my fault to keep calling though?!?
should I have just stopped callling since she never called me or anything would u guys if a chick doesn't call back?
2006-11-10 13:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well my man...you could not have handled this any worse. She talks to you and asks if you would like to study together. You assume from that it must mean she wants to be your girl. Girls do not want to be responsible for directly hurting guys. So by not calling back she was telling you she wasn't interested . But in your hot pursuit you did not get that.
By calling all the time you made it clear to her you were desperate. No girl wants or needs a desperate boy and not much will chase them off sooner. And man you were desperate.
From the beginning you blew it. You had her number. You were going to study together.
Man what more could you ask for huh? Well you wanted her as a girl friend in the worse way so you really pushed yourself on her.
This not only turns a girl off she runs from it. You have to get her interested before you can be her boyfriend. And you must know how to do that.
So what should you have done. Took the number. Called only when it was time to study. While studying, while you were together, you get to know each other. You begin to develop some social value with her and when and if, only if, the time is right you could make your move.
Have you ever heard of this phrase? The worse you want it the worse you will get it. Guess what....you are living proof that this phrase is correct.
Back off.....find another girl to study with and this time do it right.
2006-11-10 13:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this as a lesson on how not to conduct a friendship this girl offered to study with you and you took it as a green light to believe she was interested in you. next time get all you facts right and use some common sense
2006-11-10 13:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, call three times and leave a call me back message. If by the third time she hasn't returned your call, (she sees your name pop up after each call), move-on and don't make the fourth call. She's probably found someone else. Let her call you if she wants you.
2006-11-10 13:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋