And also, I kind of feel bad because sometimes I don't feel like doing it, and he is a GREAT lover, but most of the time I end up doing it anyway and it feels good ALL the time. Multiple orgasms everytime. Is there a reason for me not "feeling" like doing it at first?
2006-11-10 12:59:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems normal to me, and healthy to. That is his challenge to make you like it when u do not want it. All Good.
2006-11-10 13:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the most part, A mans libido is much stronger than a womans. Most women feel the way you do and most men feel the way your husband does. It's fantastic that he is a great lover and you should feel very fortunate that is the case. Some women are not so lucky! Enjoy it!
2006-11-10 13:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-->> LOLOL.. I have the same exact problem except my fiance and I are 24. I want it all day everyday and sometimes I try and itll really piss him off..I even caught him masturbating and I was like YOUD RATHER DO THAT THEN HAVE SEX WITH ME lol I dont think he really has a peice on the other side thats just negative thinking hes probably just tired from work, the baby etc. We do it about 4-5 times a week for the most part but i think sometimes they just want time to themselves to get off alone. just like i do
2016-05-22 04:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal..but then there is nothing wrong with it unless it is a problem for you, There seems to be a bit of an incongruence between your emotional state and physical state. Just because he wants it all the time does not mean you have to. The man needs to learn self control...how would he react if you didn`t want to and didn`t put out...do you comply during your cycle as well? If he becomes demanding or insensitive to your needs then he is being abusive...but if you don`t really care then i guess there is no problem....for now.
2006-11-10 13:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All i can say is WHY ARE YOU COMPLAINING???? I wish i had such a problem. Used to be like that but it slowly went to a few times a week. I suppose its better than nothing at all...You should be happy you have a man so interested in sex all the time. Lucky you.
2006-11-10 13:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have so much time...?
How are you on birth control?
I think you're trying to reassure yourself how good this is for you and are not presenting the entire story. Or else there is no reason I can think of why you wouldn't want to at first.
2006-11-11 11:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. Sometimes due to stress or just life you are not in the mood, and that is also very normal.
2006-11-10 13:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me break this down. It is your resposibility as a his wife that everytime he gets it up that you "work " it back down. and visa versa, And if hes giving up mulitple orgasms then girl what are you complaining about!! send his h*&%#y a s s over to me. I can handle him if you cant. :)
2006-11-10 16:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want you to know 2-3 times a day is not that much. and your complaint is. shut up and take it like the woman you are.
2006-11-10 13:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by do you wanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, sometimes I dont want to be touched, I feel dirty like an object but tell him that, gently and tell him you'll be ready later. I think as women, we go through that. But thank him for choosing you, and do it often.
2006-11-10 13:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋