i have friends and they think i need a boy friend! do i lisen or tell them i can live my life with out a man!!!
2006-11-10 12:56:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be who you want to be!!!
dont base ur life on what other people say! just because they say u need a boyfriend, only you know what you want!!!
you dont need to have a man! first be independent, beautiful woman that you are, inside, without the dependence on anyone else!
dont let your friends pressure you to find a boyfriend because you "have" to have a boyfriend.
i find people who do that really immature and are just trying to fit into something that is "cool". be yourself and make that decision based on what you feel is right!
good luck hun!
2006-11-10 13:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one knows your mind better than you do. You did not mention your age, so you could be a teenager,20-60years old, have no idea. Whatever your age is may not be that important, but if you think you do not need a man, then that is probably true, don't let your "friends" talk you into a situation you don't desire for now. Give yourself time, you will know when the time is right; plus a man will come along when you are not searching or looking for one. Each person has their own timetable for life, yours happens to be entirely different than your friends, perfectly normal. More females need to be self-reliant and not base their life on a man!!! More power to you!!! Proud of you. :-)
Ask them exactly why they "think you need a boyfriend" are they so insecure that they need a guy to make themselves feel worthy of life? You obviously feel fine just on your own, they might be jealous of you that way. Beware, girlfriends are not always as kind as they want you to believe! Us females can be devious & try to infuence others with our own opinions. If they continue to give you a hard time, look for new girlfriends. GOOD LUCK in however you face this time of your life. :-)
2006-11-10 21:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can ALWAYS live ur life w/-out a man
no girl needs a man
get a b/f ONLY IF IT'S WHAT U WANT TO DO & not what ur friends want u to do
after all,ur the 1 who's gonna be dating the person
i believe u should have some say
u'll see girls ur whole life getting b/fs,but ya know what?
that doesn't matter,cuz u don't need a guy in ur life to make it complete
go ahead & be single if u like
if u decide that u want a b/f,get 1,but it's totally UR decision & no one elses'
2006-11-10 23:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are wonderful creatures, but there are times when we just need to be on our own. Don't let anyone pressure you into seeking a relationship if you're not ready for one. It'll only hurt you and the poor guy who gets caught up in it.
2006-11-10 23:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not let anybody else think for you.Do what your mind tells you to do.Boyfriends are meant for girls believe in number of lovers in life.A LADY do not need a boy friend.
2006-11-10 21:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen here honey. your friends can't be telling you what to do. if you like being single then you like it. you know? and as for me i love being single you have no worries maybe thats why you friends want you 2 have 1 cuz since they do, you should and thats messed up for a friend 2 do that. tell them you have your own opinion kk good luck
xoxoxo
2006-11-10 21:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friends should mind their own business and you should be the one to decide when and if you're ready for a boyfriend. tell them it's personal and that the topic is off limits. would they want you telling them how they should live their lives? i doubt it.
2006-11-10 21:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Essmi d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. It's your life. Maybe you don't want a man at this moment...maybe you will never want one....maybe you want a woman or not...maybe you're asexual. As long as you are comfortable with who you are and your choices - that's what counts!
2006-11-10 21:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaaaa girl live ya life without a guy!! Going out and doing what every you want....why would anyone want to get pulled down. Also dont go out 'looking for a guy' to please them, when you find someone spec it just kinda happens!! Not fair on the guy if your just going out with him to please ya mates.
2006-11-10 21:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can live without a man. I think what they are trying to say is that your cranky, and your cranky because you arent having any sex, lol.
2006-11-10 21:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋