please help!- is it depression if....?

Question

is it depression if sometimes i hate myself and my life and just want to be someone else and get out? is that suicidal thoughts? ive never actually thought about killing myself, but on occasion i have asked myself if anyone would care if i was gone, or i feel like it would just be easier if i wasnt here.....so is this depression or suicidal? or do some people just feel this way sometimes? please help....

Answer 1

It's sounds to me like its the start of depression. Please do me and yourself a favor and talk talk talk to someone! Don't let these thoughts linger in your head until you've convinced yourself they're true, because they're NOT. You are worth more than the world. And people would care if you were gone, they would care alot more than you realize right now. You have to learn that you are YOU and that's the beauty of life. Being yourself. Please talk to someone RIGHT NOW! thank you and thanks for sharing your thoughts so we could help you.

Answer 2

Ever heard of growing pains? Life isn't easy, in the real world there is NO EASY BUTTON! You are Not suicidal or depressed.

Just going through some everyday stuff like all of us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a poem for you...

Low Spots

You Know, I Get These Low Spots.
Times Only God Can Touch

When I Feel, Kinda, Kinda Down - But Not Out
One Of Those Doggone Low Spots.

Things Going...Good
Nothing Really TOO Tough, then
Some Unnecessary Excitement,
Right Place, Wrong Time

Now, You Think, What You Should Have Done or Said
But, Hindsight is Always 20/20.
You Question Yourself...
But, All You Can Do Is Stand.
So, Stand! Move On.

God Reveals To You,
Out Of Weakness You Are Made Strong.
Low Spots Are One Of God's Tools of Pruning, Cultivation and Inner Growth!

Low Spots, One Of God's Many Ways of Saying
I LOVE YOU!

Answer 3

I believe that at times all of us get what's called the "blues". We seem to lose interest in things that we used to enjoy and lose interest in things in general. If you're feeling like that ALL the time, I would think it's depression. The best thing to do is to go to the doctor for information on how to deal with depression. You may just need some counseling. There's no shame in that.
I'm glad to hear that you would NOT commit suicide. Whatever is bothering you now is temporary and will go away. Yes, people would miss you if you were gone and NO it would not be easier if you weren't here.
I have depression and at times have wondered the same things you have, whether anyone would care if I weren't around. I've finally come to the conclusion that people would care. My husband, my brothers and sisters, friends, acquaintances.
There is help out there. Go for it.

Answer 4

It's depression. You need to talk to a counselor, pastor, or friend. Suicidal is when you think about actual methods of killing yourself. Depression comes and goes. Get some exercise, read a favorite book, or do an activity you like. I feel the same way sometimes. If you feel you don't matter, get out and help others or give to others. You do matter. God Loves You.

For encouragement, listen to ttb.org.

Answer 5

Having gone through it myself it sounds like your alone even when your surrounded by a ton of people. What you need to do is take time for yourself and figure out who you are and what you want in life because until you do that you always feel that way. And a little pill isn't going to do that for you. Look at who you surround yourself with are they positive people because being around positive people helps too. Stay away from stress and get the sleep your body and mind needs I know because I've been where you are and it does get better you just have to look in the right places.

Answer 6

Well it sounds like depression, and depression can lead to people into suicide. They sometimes come hand in hand. I would definitely seek some sort of professional help to help ease any pain that you are feeling, or to start your journey onto healing. Not everbody recommends using anti-depressants, so if you are against them don't let a doctor force you to take them. counselling is usually the best way to rid yourself of your depression. Suicide usually ceases as soon as the depression subsides. Let people know how you feel, don't bottled this up.

Answer 7

Everone probably gets these feelings at some point in their lives, but if you had the presence of mind to ask this on Yahoo answers, you are probably showing the signs of depression. I think you need to talk to somebody -- if not a licensed psychologist or psychiatrist at least a close friend, family member you can trust or schoold conselor. Check out some books such as "Felling Good" by David Burns -- it will have some quizzes to help you answer that question as well. Oh, and please, please, please, if you do start to have serious suicidal thoughts and think you would act on them get yourself to an emergency room right away.

Answer 8

I think you're just experiencing a lot of stress, which is common with almost everyone. But don't ever feel like you have to 'disappear' to make people care. I'm sure there are many people in your life that care about you. Life is too short to be worried all the time! Cheer up. Feeling sad, feeling blue? Don't make a fuss, you've got us!

Answer 9

Yes, it is. It also sounds like despair.

There are folks who would care, and there are folks who would never recover. Some people feel like this sometimes. It happens when they are depressed.

Take a minute and talk to someone you trust. It is time to get help.

Answer 10

It could eventually lead to servere depression. You should talk to a counselor and see what there thoughts are about it.