I met this guy but What should I do?

Question

I met this guy today on my way to school look this is what happened I was walking on my way to school I must cross and soprts field in order to get there then I saw him he was doing chin up bars and I passed him and in those seconds I said to myself go ask him out so I did but I didn't quite happen I oppened a conversation asking him if he like to chin ups and etc, but I didn't actually reached the question so I told him I had to go cuz it was getting late but I asked him "see you later so you can teach about that" and I just got away now this were his reactions he smiled at me, he treated me as a friend and he does not look gay at all now to my question should I ask him out for coffee or so, should I make friends first then ask, I really am confused cuz I've had bf before but I've never felt like i did today I felt so happy so nervous and so anxious I need your help I don't know what to do and by the he said yes to teach me about the chin ups with a smile on his face

He does not go to the same school tht i do but about keeping it low you mean I should not tell him I'm gay as a friend or should I just shut up and let it flow

Answer 1

No honey do not ask him out for coffee. Start up a friendship. You definitely need a more clear cut sign to his being gay or not. He could just be friendly so keep it casual. Anything else could sabotage it before it starts. Keep your head over your emotions, you must protect yourself. You innocently could have scoped out the most homo phobic guy in school. Learn chin ups. Ask around about him, very cautiously. Be careful.

Answer 2

Looks like you have a genuine crush on this guy. Or should I say you were *charmed* by everything about him, huh?

You should try to be friends first. Let him know you are there and aware of him. There's a large chance he may not be gay, but go for it anyway. Ask him if he wants some coffee, and take it from there. There's no way to map out how, exactly, one should proceed at this point since life is simply not scripted. You just have to 'get in there' and meet him, feel him out (no literally) to see if he is interested in more than coffee. But one step at a time.

Take a big breath and do your best. I'm sure you will do just fine. And, just in case this guy doesn't come around, don't worry there are cute boys on the monkey bars on every corner. I see them every day myself!

Answer 3

Man, that's a tough one. Well here's somethings you could try. While he's up there doing chin ups, reach up and pull his shorts down around his ankles. If he still is smiling, let nature take its course. Or, while he is chinning, get in front of him and hold his waist. Tell him you have heard about serious injuries from guys doing chin ups and don't want him to fall. Keep getting nearer his crotch with your face. If he keeps smiling or gets a hard on, you're good to go.

Answer 4

sounds like you need a confidence boost. Starting off with something like "let's get coffee" is rather vague especially when they guy doesn't knw you very well.

You should to try to speak and break the ice with him gradually and then ask if he wants some coffee or maybe to have some lunch sometime. This "crush" of your's is cute and seems sincere but if you can't take control of the situation then you'll be the one "crushed".

Hope thsi helps.

Answer 5

just be yourself,and just go with the flow,don't rush be friend first
and see what happens