He had neer been nice to my family. He badmouths my parents. He hurts their feelings and makes life a lot tougher for them. I lost all respect for him. My blood boils when I think of him. I seem really angry but it is because he has done a lot of damage to my family. Should I reveal the information of him and his "girlfriend"? Thanks.
2006-11-10 11:24:05 · 15 answers · asked by Hariko T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It may surprise you but your g'ma may already know. Stay out of it. Ignore him and what he does that is negative towards the family.
2006-11-10 11:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old u are? because if your a teenager tell someone older then u adult. Then go from there. talk it out. If your adult still tell someone else. But you said girlfriend, not his wife. Thats different to it's only his girlfriend. Do they live together. If they do she will find out on her own. We women do. If there not living together then they don't have a true comment either. So it's really a hard place for u to be in. Grandpa may just be a bad egg. My real advice to u is sense she just his "girlfriend" let it go soon or later she find out.
2006-11-10 11:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it and say nothing. That's a good way to loose the trust of everyone. It will change the way the family treats you. Act as if you know nothing and let the truth come out some other way and not by your doing.
2006-11-10 11:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by normy in garden city 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your family members know you don't like your grandpa, than they might think your lying on him, so it's probably best not to say anything, but if you can try to prove it in a way to where he gets caught in the act by someone other than you & than the yruth will set you free...
2006-11-10 12:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by chris52863c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Tell him everything and how he has hurt the family. Telling the family could make matters worse.
2006-11-10 11:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am certainly against adultery. However, ask yourself this question: "If I tell, am I being just like him?" I also do not know how factual this information is. Did he tell you? Did you see him with another woman? How can you be sure of the relationship with this other woman? Could it be innocent? Would grandma believe you, even if you tell her? What might happen next?
Generally speaking, when a family has a "dysfunctional" member, it is best to keep your distance. That is usually the healthiest choice. Consider leaving him alone....you don't want to be like him.
Peace be with you.
2006-11-10 11:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your granmother only..for now..and let her decide what to do..because if you blow up his spot and your family forgives him then youll be caught in the middle of the situation..
2006-11-10 11:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want to know if i was being cheated on , maybe you could tell your grandpa to tell your grandma , if he refuses you might have to do it. make sure of your facts and make sure you can back up what you say , you definetly dont want to hurt grandma without proof. good luck
2006-11-10 11:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by sindi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because he deserves it,and people needs to know that he is really that bad, and you should do it for your grand mom,she needs to know
2006-11-10 11:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going throuth with it you better have proof or bad things could happen good luck
2006-11-10 11:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by arc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, in a heart beat
2006-11-10 11:49:01 · answer #11 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋