Been on my own 3 years, why do guys not like women who have a brain, are quite nice looking, can cook and clean. Wot is their problem!!!?
2006-11-10 10:42:03 · 23 answers · asked by RUTH M 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They are intimidated.
2006-11-10 10:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Many guys are intimidated by beautiful & independent women. All I can suggest is that you hold out for that special one & don't settle just because you want to be in a relationship.
Enjoy being pretty & single, go out a lot, meet different people & travel - do loads of stuff that you may not be able to once you meet someone & have to take their needs, views etc into consideration.
I was single for years & although I'm not a supermodel I think I'm ok looking, I had a great job, car, flat everything & couldn't figure out why I was single. I would have happily slapped anyone who told me 'it happens when you least expect it' BUT it did, met my husband in the same bar I'd been going to for years.
I'm extremely happy now but also very glad I had a great single life as I don't have any regrets about not doing stuff before I settled down.
Good luck !!
2006-11-10 16:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mari C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a few thoughts:
Are you demanding - try to control a chap's life?
Maybe your standards or expectations are too high.
Do you move in circles that include a supply of men of the right calibre?
Do you earn a lot of money? This can be a problem as a high earning gentleman not needing a second income may avoid a career woman in favour of a woman aspiring to motherhood.
If the ultra clean refers to you personally, this is great but if you are too house proud, a man may feel intimidated.
2006-11-10 11:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Clive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, although i have been married for almost 22 years and was married at the age of 21. And I don't really know many men although i have seen em talking in a chat room to women lol. That men like women who tell them what they want to hear and express an interest in their particular interest. And on top of this hint at extra attention (which may or may not happen lol) Men want women that swoon at their every comment and agree constantly with their view lol lol lol THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION X
The nice women don't seem to have blokes and errrrrrrrrrrrrm the others (koff) do
2006-11-12 05:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women have brains, my wife for instance, so asking what is wrong with "guys" is the wrong question. Many successful, clean and quite nice looking women are in happy relationships, I respectfully suggest that the question you should be asking is " what is wrong with me", and before you get all huffy and put out by my comments, I realise I know nothing about you apart from what you have written above.
2006-11-10 11:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know why you're confused, but sometimes it's not enough, there is an x factor, some people have it and some haven't.
The thing that makes you look at a guy twice is the oldest part of your brain and there's nothing you can do about who you like or don't like.
I reckon natural selection is still alive and well amongst the human race.
2006-11-10 10:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by jimbo_thedude 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sound quite arrogant and rather a n a l about being clean.
We arn't turned off by brains, in fact clever men are turned on by them rather than having women only interested in soap operas, x-factor and relationship issues (yawn). I'm dating a neuro-surgeon who is both very clever and incredibly sexy. She isn't arrogant though and we have great fun competing against each other watching university challenge.
Maybe you're not as pretty as you think, more so women who are obsessed with their appearence emit an anattractive quality.
2006-11-11 02:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by John H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 00:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by england 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound desperate and guys can sense it. We then wonder why you are desperate.
Best thing to do is just act stupid. Its much easier than a thicko trying to act clever.
2006-11-10 13:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by SunGod 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The prob is the ultra clean thing.
2006-11-10 10:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it's your personality.
You don't sound very nice.
I mean, since you spelt "what" wrong - Yeah.... I hate to break it to you, but I don't think you're as smart as you like to think.
2013-11-24 08:07:01 · answer #11 · answered by Random Citizen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋