Have you ever been betrayed by someone whom you thought was a friend?

Question

What did he/she do?

Answer 1

My best friend, whom I loved very much let me down. I feel I was always there for her. When she had her back surgery I am the one who took her magazines and other junk to make her smile. Her other so called best friend just wanted to drag her to Mexico and disregard her health. When she and her sister went to Mexico one time and did not let anyone know where they were I was just as upset as her mother. I was really worried about her. When she found out she was pregnant by her ex b/f who had cheated on her I was there. She drank a 6 pack of beer when she found out and I kept my mouth shut even though I thought it was stupid. I was trying to be her friend, not judge her. I was the one who went to her ex at her request and told him about the baby. Eventually they got back together and things were going ok. One morning I was served with court papers. My ex b/f was trying to take my son away. I called my friend all upset and asked her to come over right away. She said she would. When she did not show up I called her house and her mother told me she went out with her b/f. I didn't hear from her at all that day. She ditched me when I needed her most after all I had done for her. Not long after that my old best friend surfaced. I had stopped being friends with her because she only visited me to get close to guys I kicked it with. She would stay weekends at my house but I never saw her. Her name was Jamie. The pregnant one was Maryann. Ok, Jamie cheated on her b/f all of the time and I got blamed. I got tired of her b/f blaming me so this time when she came around and started cheating again I called her b/f and told him. I don't care if it was low. I was tired of being mistreated. Anyway, Maryann and her sister got angry with me even though Jamie meant nothing to them. They actually had the nerve to turn their backs on me after I was the better friend to them. I had never done anything wrong to them and I still haven't. Well, eventually that all blew over but I never said anything about when Maryann ditched me the day I was served with the court papers. I think resentment started to build over all of this but it gets worse. After a while her b/f decided he did not like me and I don't know why. He started telling people that I abused my children and they were afraid of me and that I did not feed them. My son has a speech problem and goes to speech therapy. Her b/f said he wouldn't talk because I scared him. Ridiculous! He was conviced I was a horrible mother all of a sudden and was trying to convince everyone around him. I don't know why he turned on me like he did. Maryann would tell him to stop but she wasn't serious enough about it because he did not stop and he wanted to believe I was trash. I cried more than once because of the things that were said. I also started to realize that my friend never called me or visited me. I was the one that did all of that and to be her friend meant taking abuse from her man. I did it for a few years but my self esteem could not take it. I can't help but feel like this is Maryann's fault either because if it were the other way around I would never had let my husband treat her so terribly. I will never understand any of it and I will never know why it happened because I never had the courage to ask. I think about her and I miss her but the friendship is over. I stopped talking to her 3 years ago just out of the blue. She may or may not know why. I felt like I wronged her and I still do but I just don't feel I deserved to be mentally abused by SOMEONE ELSES HUSBAND. I don't know if she is still with him. I don't know if she realizes why I stopped talking to her. I don't know if she cares or misses me like I miss her. It's a choice I have to live with and I am. I can't go through life letting my friends walk all over me.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

ALL of my female "friends" have betrayed me in some way... whether it be hitting on my man, or talking junk behind my back. That's why I no longer have any female friends. I figure I will let fate hook me up with some real friends.

Answer 4

Yes loads of times. The worst was 4 years ago. I trusted my best friend never to tell a secret I told her, whatever happened, but about a week later, another of her friends told me she had told quite a lot of people already. I have never spoken to her since.

Answer 5

I had a pal for my entire complete existence. We have been great peers. We spent each unmarried second in combination, and we had a blast always. We rarely argued, and we have been like sisters, besides nearer. Even despite the fact that mostly I used to be a nasty pal, she consistently forgave me. Then, approximately a yr in the past, she became on me. She simply went wayy over her head in plenty of matters and used to be thoroughly unfair to me. She received me into LOADS of obstacle, and pretended to be sorry approximately it. I on no account wish to look her once more. I suppose so sorry for you honey, I know the way you suppose.

Answer 6

lmao, uhm if no one has, then they are not living in this society. of course. im sure everyone has been through that. it doesn't matter what they did, unless you just want to know, but who knows you could be that friend who betrayed someone.

Answer 7

yes i have..i thought she was such a good friend until one day i sat back and realized what she was doign she was telling me who i could date and who i couldnt she would sit there adn tell me reasons why i should get rid of whoever.. adn now i am getting married and she expects to be my maid of honor i dotn think so...and she rubs in my face all this expesive stuff that she buys but then she cant even pay her rent

Answer 8

This person was a very bossy person and I told them that I didn't like them being bossy, and so because they couldn't be bossy to me. They told a mutual friend that they didn't want to be friends with me anymore. But i know it was because they couldn't boss me around anymore, was the reason why she didn't want to know me.

Answer 9

yes i have.theyve lied to me said bad things about me and pretty much the same thing by stabbing me in the back.friends sometimes have jealousy of one another.if you have jealousy in a friendship you might as well kiss your friends goodbye.friendships dont last when theyre built on jealousy.

Answer 10

yes, she said she'd only be my friend and then she went to another person and told her all the secrets i told her. and it was really embarrassing. and then she told me she wasn't my friend anymore and then went smacking to other people about me behind my back.