Ok, there's this one guy (he's my friend) and i think he likes me. For instance, sometimes when me and him and a group of other people hang out, he wil always walk beside me. @ church, sometimes he sits beeside me. See, but the thing is I don't like him as anymore than a friend. The other people that have had a crush on me haven't been my friends, so i can tell them to leave me alone however, because i don't have to worry about ending a friendship. But i don't know how i would tell him, with out hurting his feelings.
2006-11-10 09:40:07 · 16 answers · asked by fuzzy p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dont flirt back pretend you have no idea and if he doesnt get the hint say "a few ppl told me you had a crush on me, do you?" Then talk from there, if he is a good friend then he will still be your friend, but remember dont get mad if doesnt want to be your friend, he has feelings too. it really depends on the guy how he takes it, but dont lead him on, and it will only get worse the longer you wait to talk to him.
Hope that helps,
♥Heather
2006-11-10 09:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have carefully gone through your query but I am unable to find what is the difficulty in laying off this guy. You said you shooed away others who made passed at you but believe me these boys were just innocents who did not know how to go about diplomatically in approaching a girl. Beware of this guy to me he does not appear to be as innocent as you would like to feel. For aught I know he may be a pastmaster of the game and If I am not too ofr the mark he must have already played along with others like you. You just make some discreet enquiries and you will know it. However, do not hold it against him. Having a crush is nothing intrincally bad if the ultimate aim is love. From the fact that you had seen through the game of other more impatient guys you may not find it too difficult to sift the matter. Then depending on your findiings, throw this guy out or welcome him into your parlour.
2006-11-10 17:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point he might not even like you like that. Just don't even mention it. Maybe he just wants to be your friend and you're intrepretting it wrong. If it is bothering you then talk to him about it but since he hasn't actually said he has a crush on you there's a good chance he doesn't. It all just seems like friendly behavior to me. He's crossed no line into what I would consider the way a guy would behave he had a crush on you. He actually just sounds like a good friend. So best of luck to you. And remember since you are a teenager even if this guy does like you, he'll find someone new eventually.
2006-11-10 17:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Polo Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start a conversation with him and mention that you arent looking for a relationship, or how its great that "you guys will always be friends because you both know that your friendship is purely platonic". Dont worry about hurting him. If you dont let your intentions be known it always hurts worse.
2006-11-10 19:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like being friends for now and you are not ready to have any kind of relationship other than that. If he can't respect that then he is not a good friend to begin with. Hope things work out.
2006-11-10 17:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Holly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let him no that u don't wanna ruin the friendship, and that u are not looking 4 a boyfriend right now. if he is a true friend he will understand.
2006-11-10 17:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by beauty20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends and if he makes any advances then tell him you are not interested, he may just be being friendly and you don't want to feel like a fool if you say something and he is not interested
2006-11-10 17:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by rye252000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a friend who liked me and did the exact same things so i said i dont like him but ill give him a try and in a few weeks we became together and i think you should try him and if you still say no just do what my cousin did she asked him if he liked her he said yes than she said lets still be friends and not ruion our freindship
2006-11-10 17:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Miggy.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a good friend you should be able to be honest with him, he may be hurt to start with but he will come around, and like i say if he is a good friend he will get over it and will be glad you were honest and didnt lead him on, hope this help.
2006-11-10 17:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he likes you! What does he think about you? You both have to discuss where your friendship borders intimate or just good company.
2006-11-10 19:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by David E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋