All Ok at funeral and for couple of months after, now 4 years
later, lucky if I get Christmas Card, we went all around Europe
and bought a boat together, this I sold my share to them..is
this usual ????
2006-11-10 09:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by landgirl60 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, you are now viewed as a single female and there is always a certain amount of drawing back by insecure females.
2006-11-10 09:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are having trouble dealing with you now your circumstances have changed. They may not know how to cope with seeing you without your husband. To them you may have lost half the person you were! I've been married for 27 years and know that I am half of a couple. On my own I am just not my 'full' self when he is not out with me and around people. Don't forget that they will be grieving too and maybe you should sit down with them/write to them and explain that you want to know what is going on and also to let them know you understand that they are dealing with their 'loss' their own way. Hope it works out for you.
2006-11-10 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Confuzzled 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to bless others with your friendship, you can only see if those old guys show up. Anyway, they could be sorting stuff out in their own lives, you never know.
2006-11-10 09:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really didn'nt get what you were saying. If you are talking about seeing a new guy, it is o.k. It isn't wrong to be happy with someone and move on.
2006-11-10 09:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit odd - if they were good friends, you' dhave thought they would be closer to you,not more distant! Either don't let it worry you, or ask them outright
2006-11-10 09:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends can get funky. ive seen it in my life and with familty member. makes you wonder? did they truly value the friendship?
2006-11-10 10:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i pray that u will find a genuine friend in jesus xx
2006-11-10 09:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps seeing you reminds them of the fun you all had, and it upsets them,
2006-11-10 09:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by thegolfingjunkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, maybe they just liked him more than they liked you...
2006-11-10 09:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do strange things...i know how it is
2006-11-10 09:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋