i mean Not all of them! but those who are perfect! my friend Maria frist she was so nice (not that much) last year and Now she so mean and stupid! she is perfect! she is smart, pretty ,in shape, and a gymnast! Now she is my nightmare!
she is sooooooooo mean! (evil)
i'm not that cool or perfect! but i'm NOT LIKE HER!
Advice
2006-11-10 09:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is mean to every girls in the school(only other to girls)
2006-11-10 09:40:21 · update #1
Girls are just naturally bitchy that's our nature!
2006-11-10 09:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls who undergo some transformation (fat to slim, ugly to pretty, unpopular to popular) realize that it's easier to manipulate the people around them into getting what they want. Like Lindsay Lohan did in Mean Girls once she was one of the Plastics. Less popular or less physically-attractive people will most of the time bend to the will of "prettier" people. This means that even if you won't do what she wants, she'll find like ten other people who will. Not just that, but she doesn't "need" you anymore. Even if you stop being her friend, she'll have a whole bunch of others waiting in line. Since she's "pretty" now she'll just want to hang around people who look just as good as her so everyone can acknowledge her as part of the HOT crowd. You should just get over it. Ignore her and after middle school or high school (I don't know what you're in) you'll totally forget about her. If she's as dumb as you say, she'll end up living at home not going to a good college. You just focus on studying hard, get into Harvard, get an amazing job, and then when she's living at her parents' house at age 30, you can drive by in your BMW and cackle at her. HAHA. Maybe not the last part, but you know what I mean. Just forget about it, you'll see what I mean soon enough!
2006-11-10 17:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because people, especially girls, who want to be thought of as "perfect" typically have a lot of insecurities about themselves, so they hide those insecurities by picking on someone else so they can feel better about themselves. You probably possess a quality that she envies to the point of hating you for it. Maybe you're a really nice person and she knows she can never be as nice or as good of a friend as you, so she is purposely mean to you to try to get you to be mean back. I know she's hurting your feelings, but try not to fall into her trap and sink to her level. Don't worry- karma never fails to balance the world out, and she will soon get what's coming to her.
2006-11-10 17:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a day rife with errors, bcbc, especially where money matters are concerned. Don't panic if you get a bank statement with a negative balance, or if your paycheck is several hundred dollars short today. Stay calm, make a few phone calls and all will be sorted out by mid-day. You are especially intuitive today. Use it to your advantage and you will have a most successful day indeed.
2006-11-10 17:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but a lot aren't mean all my group of friends are smart, i guess you could say pretty, in shape and all my friends are gymnasts and they are far from mean
2006-11-10 17:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it and be happy in yourself. Life is too short to worry about other people who annoy you. People who think they are perfect often rely on their looks and charm to get them through life and fail to develop good and caring social skills. And remeber: what goes around, comes around.
2006-11-10 17:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are mean. However, study does show that there are more groups and divisions amongst girls than boys.
2006-11-10 17:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. Maybe if you made sense, people would be nice to you. I'm sorry, but if you are unable to be understood, then people are bound to be rude to you. "...she is mean and stupid....she is smart..." Contradictory, and we don't really even know what you want to know here.
2006-11-10 17:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its you treat them badly so they treat you badly as well. =/ Girls aren't mean, at least they aren't any meaner than guys. Don't stereotype by gender. Perhaps she doesn't see you as a friend. Either way girls aren't all mean, and if they are its cause they have a reason to be.
2006-11-10 17:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
as girls change over the years they become with a big attitude this happened to me it is o.k
2006-11-10 17:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls can be, just like good guys can be mean, everyone can be mean. maybe she doesnt like you and want to be around you so she is mean
2006-11-10 17:38:23 · answer #11 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋