o.k not a joke, i'm Virgo, Husbands Aries. Is this why we.....?

Question

Constantly fight? Is it cause possibly maybe our signs just dont do well with each other.??

Answer 1

I dont think you fight just because of incompatibility of signs. It is, however, possible that if you try to gather some understanding of your husband based on his Aries traits, that might help towards the relationship.

So here's something about Aries guys.

Positive traits:
Adventurous and energetic
Pioneering
courageous
Enthusiastic
confident
Dynamic
quick-witted

Negative traits:
Selfish
quick-tempered OR Impulsive
impatient

Arians are frank and direct. It is possible that Arians can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in their companions and, though sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others. They have a strong SEXUAL URGE and it is very important to them.
Arians DISLIKE PEOPLE GIVING ADVICES and are bad in ADMITTING THEIR FAILURES.

Now since I discussed more NEGATIVE traits for your guy, let me tell you yours. As a Virgo girl, you tend to be Fussy and a worrier (WHICH EXPLAINS WHY ARE SO WORRIED AND DEEPLY CONCERNED ABOUT POSSIBLE SMALL FIGHTS),
Overcritical and harsh (BE CAREFUL THERE MISS!! YOUR GUY DOES NOT LIKE LOT OF CRITICISM OR ADVICES AS AN ARIAN.....) , Perfectionist and conservative. Also you are very health conscious.

Now, after a little bit of research, I would say that if you are criticizing or giving advice to your guy, minimize it. He's not going to like it too much, and being impulsive/irritable he might end up in a fight with you.

Try reducing your analysis over him, minmize the observations you do and if you cant do that, minimize the advices/suggestions u give...

I am a Virgo guy and I understand. Its not totally because of your signs, but compatibility is between personalities and looking at traits based on signs might give you some ideas how to better your relation.

BEST OF LUCK AND BEST WISHES FROM A FELLOW VIRGOAN...

Answer 2

The reason why you think your signs dont match is because a relationship with these two signed takes time to develop. You both must learn to understand where each other is coming from.

Aries is brash, dominant and aggressive, always jumping into new things and almost always impatient, Virgo is detail-oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward long-term goals.

I know cause I am a Virgo too. =) Although we do bend for many things we are perticular people and we likes things a certain way.
Aries's energy is also fiery and impetuous while Virgo's is much slower and more grounded.

Honestly Virgo and Aries is not a bad astrological match. Any relationship takes effort and if your not working out I would take a look at the actual problem from the inside rather than looking to the stars for someone to blame. Good luck ;)

Answer 3

No. Your a bit wound tight (sorry) and he's a bit laid back (hey, lambs, goats, etc. are supposed to lie down). But he's also abit jumpy sometimes and this can get on your nerves, going from one to the other. However, they work excellently together. Virgos can be motherly, understanding to fault, caring deeply for others and the same for Aries. They too want to guide others and show them the "easy paths up the mountain." Perhaps your both alike in too many ways and find it irritating (at least on your part). Just relax and be glad you have each other, life could be so much worse than 2 people who know and love each other so well. Just appreciate your differences everyday and you'll never get tired of each other, a bit impatient at times, but that's true for every couple, no matter the sign.

Answer 4

Time is the key word with an Aries/Virgo relationship because it will take plenty of it to really find out if romance will work. These two signs appear to have nothing in common – at first. But with a little bit of time and a lot of communicating, when they do find things to share, it can be quite exciting! If these two signs can scratch the surface and dig a bit deeper they just may find a rewarding relationship! but it kinda doesn't matter on your signs it matters in your heart!

Answer 5

I have known a few Virgo/Aries combos and wow, yup a lot of conflict! try to find any common ground you both enjoy, walking, hiking, movies whatever and make sure to do these things regularly. Then the rest of the time give each other a lot of space to cool your heels, do things apart, absence makes the heart grow fonder? Do nice spontaneous things for one and other say once a month or so to reconnect in a non combative way.
Good Luck!

Answer 6

yeah because virgos are known to be perfectionists and aries are stubborn so both of you are bound to see things differently which will lead to alot of fights

Answer 7

yep, that's probably the reason. i'm an aries and i know i can be stubborn but some people can't stand that

Answer 8

the signs have nothing to do with each other

Answer 9

no
depends on what you're fighting about

Answer 10

No... no I don't think it has anything to do with it.