I am suffering from premature ejaculation, I am over before I count 10, tried all sorts of techniques like stop n start, hold back, squeeze etc nothing works, plz men who have had this problem and have overcome of it successfully please suggest some remedies, also let me know if meditation or hypnotism would help. serious answers please as I am about to get married now, I dont want to fell embarrased :-(
2006-11-10 09:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i don't really know what to say. i know that ive heard on some sex shows that if you masturbate a lot, that it could affect it greatly. also you should relax and enjoy what you are doing. My suggestion would be to make sure that you can please her, forplay with her before you begin having sex. touch her body and caress her and make her feel like she's reached the stars. sometimes they even reach an orgasm during this session. some like to be talked dirty too. that could help. once you feel she is pretty well satisfied, you go in and finish the job. i think that little by little, this could help you out and later on be able to last longer. Don't get tooooo excited because you will only make it to ten that way. just enjoy it and dont put too much stress on yourself.
2006-11-10 09:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Elsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but I think I have a suggestion for you. Masturbate at some point before you have sex, like earlier in the day, if you have a date that evening, for example. Or masturbate a couple of times, and do it once not long before you have sex.
From another perspective, what difference does it really make that you ejaculate fast? Maybe you should, just to get it out of the way sort of, and then you will last longer, if you immediately (or pretty soon thereafter) have sex again.
2006-11-10 17:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you're doing this bigger than it is that is the main problem stop thinking about it. Just Relax and do not focus on you're problem concentrate in enjoying. I'll give you something that might help next time you're doing it think In what you're feeling when kissing, focus in the warm feeling of her body touching you but do not think in that you're about to finish. Concentrate in the sensation of the air touching you that will help you to enjoy what you're doing and not to get stressed. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 19:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by zemi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. first of congratulations on your engagement. next, if you are marrying a nice decent girl, she will understand. my boyfriend used to have the same problem and so managed through it. we tried different lubes and basically, he just masturbates a lot now. haha. but seriously, before we have sex he goes to the bathroom and relives himself, this helps prolong sex but on the other hand, i loved it when he came fast because that meant i can have sex again and again again...
just have some fun, and you really dont need medicine. try talking to your girlfriend too... she might give you oral before hand and so forth ( you just need to ejaculate before sex)
give it a shot! hope it works.
2006-11-10 17:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by bar22bie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. you need to jack off more. seriously... but instead of just going for the finish, get yourself right on the verge of climax, and keep yourself there for as long as possible. dont actually come, just stay on the verge for extended periods. that will train you to hold off on coming.
either that or think of a wrinkly grannys butt.... actually if you do that too much you might like grannys after awhile, and thats bad...
2006-11-10 22:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult store or go online & order some "Sta-Hard Desensitizing Lubricant".
It will numb the tip of your penis which will keep you from coming so fast.
2006-11-10 19:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may go away when you are getting regular sex. Just the novelty sometimes makes it impossible to control things.
2006-11-10 17:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a load of beer. One way or the other it will stop your problem.
2006-11-10 20:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Player 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a b u t t plug,it will prolong your actions.
2006-11-11 00:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried a delay cream? It desensitises you penis and delays your orgasm. It can be bought online.
2006-11-10 17:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋