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My previous question (link): "Was it wrong to tell a girl to lose another 5 lbs? She is 105 lbs, 5'6"?
recently (over the summer) she dropped from 130 to 105 lbs. i loved it. she is soooo beautiful. i mean..GOD! anyway, this week i told her to try and lose another 5 lbs b/c i thought she might be even hotter. but then, she got really MAD at me (in school). and now she wouldn't even speak to me for 5 days already. i really want her (back). what should i do now? "
2006-11-10 09:14:52 · 19 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Good for her. The last thing she needs is you tearing away at her confidence. She did not need to lose weight in the first place and I think you have a very wharped idea of what looks good.
Maybe you are too used to looking at perfectly airbrushed underweight models in magazines, but this is really life, not the catwalk and it is not acceptable or helpful to recommend unecessary weight loss.
If you want her friendship or whatever, then you need leave this weight issue alone. Concentrate on your own issues, as it appears you have some that you need help with. If you can't do that, you don't deserve her. Sorry, I know you are probably a nice guy, but this is very wrong. Take care : )
2006-11-10 10:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense man, but you have seriously got to get help!! She´s 5 foot 6 and u´re telling her too lose weight when she is at 105 already!? What is your problem man!? How bout u get working on ur body!? I can´t stand people like u controlling girls and only looking at their bodies!!! U need 2 get some help man!!!!!!!! Leave the freakin´ girl alone!!! Don´t u see more than looks and at 105 pounds at her height, she might actually be underweight...stop being such a god damn control freak!!!!!!!!!!!! U need to wait a long time before you even set foot near a girl if you plan to treat her like that!!!
2006-11-10 09:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude
Never tell a woman she needs to lose weight! Ever
She just dropped 25 lbs and you're asking for 5 more. She wants you to be stoked with her, not point out her remaining flaws. Do you have any idea how difficult it can be to lose 25lbs?
If I were you and it were important, I'd apologize profusely.
Ask her what she wants and support her efforts to achieve her goals. That's what they want.
Good Luck
2006-11-10 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for her!!!! If all you value her for is her weight, she is well rid of you. at 5'6" and 130 lbs, she was already at a proper weight. Now that she knows you are nothing but a shallow berk, she should be able to live a wonderful life.
2006-11-10 09:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by eilishaa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything for you to do. Say your sorry and look on from afar. Was she not the same beautiful person when she was 130 lbs.?
2006-11-10 09:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Teeni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg everyone was so mean to you last time you asked, and that weight and height aint anorexic thank you very much, im 5'8 and 9stone 6pounds and im still curvey with a belly :P
apologise to her, tell her you love her, and make sure she knows how much that she means to you, and make sure you change her opinion on why she thnks you told her to lose the extra weight
anyway i wish you good luck for trying to get her back, if not i hope you find someone else, cos to me you seem a dead nice guy xx
2006-11-10 09:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry Smith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were only thinking about yourself when you told her to lose weight and not her. She must have REALLY liked you to actually DO IT for you. Then, when it didn't make you happy, she realized how selfish you are and that you'll never think of anyone but yourself, then she gave up and has moved on.
2006-11-10 09:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to start making it up to her. And I think you discovered that telling a woman anything about her weight (except to congratulate her when she is successful) is setting yourself up for some hard times.
I think the best way to start making it up to her to be straight forward and sincere with an apology.
2006-11-10 09:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Semi-charmed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont EVER tell a girl to lose weight are you joking. Not only does she think that your not attracted to her anymore she thinks that all you care about is looks, what were you thinking???? It's over, Sorry!
2006-11-10 09:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, you must make this up to her ASAP. Do something outrageous to get her back. Tell her how proud of her you are for her losing the weight.
2006-11-10 09:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by yeppers`peppers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋