Ever had someone you thought was your friend, **** on you from a great height?
2006-11-10 09:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
No, but I understand.
Although the hurts been done, you are the winner (if there is to be one in this scenario). You have one less person to worry about. The Other person puts their selves into a predicament as to whom they can they can and cannot turn to should they need to.
You have gained ~ by experience.
Other has lost (you) through behaviour.
You are the vulnerable one, but have gained in letting yourself be seen as such. 'Other' has always something to hide. And should Other decide to mend their ways, what lengths would have to be gone to to prove this? Who is going to trust this one....!
Sash.
2006-11-12 04:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Its not very nice and can effect you for a very long time! But dont try to get even its bad thoughts and wasted energy...I was always taught that 2 wrongs dont equal a right...You will be glad you didnt react bitterly in the end ...it makes you so much better than the other person. My mum always said that you would meet hundreds of friends in your lifetime whether it be on the tube in a bar on holiday down at the gym...blah blah...but you would only be able to count on one hand how many remained loyal and trusted who you could call a friend
2006-11-10 18:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by wxantiadh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had a few do this to me at some time or another in my life -- which is why there is Divorce (short disaster of a marriage) -- which is why I will NEVER allow one adult child back into my home (they helped my ex from approximately a decade and half AFTER divorce BURGLARIZE my home), and the ex-in-laws -- let's just say that they are INSANE enough to BLAME the SURVIVOR of that Brutality for the Breakdown of the Relationship and the problems that THEIR son has in living as an adult.
2006-11-10 17:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but that is not just something friends do. Family can do a pretty good job at times as well. But I know that it has nothing to do with me. The folks that act like this either have something to hide or are trying to be divisive, or they are very jealous. So it says a lot about them. They are to be pitied.
2006-11-10 17:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by hkskwa2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its happend to me so much that i dont have that many friends anymore i got tired of back stabbers and jelouse people and stuff. The last time it ever happend to me i actually got revenge i dated her boyfriend and the whole time she thought we were still friends after she stabbed me in the back and i remained cool once she got her first boyfriend i stoll him from her. And that was that, after awhile of people stabbing you in the back you get sick of it and get revenge and i did and than i stopped talkn to her and started doing what she had done to me on her and things got fixed the right way to where at school she was getting trash canned at home people were throwing eggs she hurt me so bad that i had to take revenge.
2006-11-10 17:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and when I needed them the most.
2006-11-10 17:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and that was the last time I trusted them.
2006-11-10 19:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it always feels twice as bad when its someone you've trusted
2006-11-10 17:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep but got riddo pretty quick.
2006-11-10 18:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by skybound767 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes, and it cuts like a knife. God bless
2006-11-10 17:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋