Waht kind of guy should a tomboy go out with? I am a MAJOR tomboy, but not lez.
2006-11-10 09:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Me too. I'm 51, but grew up a tomboy & would still rather watch football than go to the mall. I've had 2 failed marriages, not that my lack of feminity was the main cause, but it probably contributed to it. I also competed with men (sucessfully) in almost everything I did. Some men find this emasculating. I've been living with a man now for 3 years who accepts me as I am. They are few & far between. He's a very tall construction worker. Good luck!- don't pretend to be someone you're not.
2006-11-10 09:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The right one for you! I don't think you could say what 'kind' of guy you should go out with because you're a tomboy, but maybe you should make sure you find someone who likes you for you and doesn't try to change you.
2006-11-10 17:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by chris_morganuk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always go out with people who are interesting and who find you interesting. Also avoid people who deal in categories like tomboy etc. My wife is so butch that it is a major joke in the family. She builds things and fixes the cars. Does not affect my identity in the slightly. Avoid stereotypes.
2006-11-10 17:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by oldhippypaul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A manly man, because they're interested in the same things as you and you'll be perfect for them. You can play sports with them, watch sports with them, drink beer with them (I hope I'm not stereotyping you) And they'll like you because they wont have to hold your purse, go shopping with you, say you don't look fat in that dress. But don't be completely against dressing like a woman, because a woman who is to much of a macho, is a turn off for a guy.
2006-11-10 17:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by StarGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not really sure but to be honest, I wouldnt personally be attracted to a tomboy, Im sure theres some kinda dude that would be but i like girls to be like... girls.
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2006-11-10 17:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Yume Kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what you like. Maybe you will like the jock type. You can throw footballs to each other and build things together. I am gay and athletic. If I were straight, I think I would be attracted to Tom Boys.
2006-11-10 17:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by gc27858 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself in a box, dearie! Mutual attraction will tell you who to date. Also, never assume certain men aren't interested in you. Keep an open mind for yourself. Look at how many couples seem like a misfit, yet they are totally in love.
2006-11-10 17:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tom boy should date a girly man
2006-11-10 17:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by drea6996 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a wimp, if he don't listen kick his butt
2006-11-10 17:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by Boogerman 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋