I have this friend who will come over then stay way past when she is welcome. But if I tell her to just leave she will get mad at me. Same when I am at her house she will not let me leave then when I do she makes me feel bad. How can I be kind and GET HER OUT OF MY HOUSE?!??!?!
2006-11-10 08:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by ellenrose219 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start doing something she hates, or simply say "I hate to be rude, you know I love your company but I've got other things to do right now, we'll talk later OK?"
If she gets mad then maybe you need to re-evaluate whether or not she's worth the trouble.
Good luck honey!
2006-11-10 08:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up with her and say that you have a curfew for your friends when they are at your house and she either needs to obide by that or she cant come over anymore, same thing when you are her house..Tell her you need to be home at a certain time and if she has a problem with that tell her you wont be coming over anymore.
2006-11-10 17:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point out her flaws, just tell her "not to be offencive or anything but i think that sometimes u make me feel uncomfortable how u stay at my house really late and u wouldn't let me go when i'm at ur place. So, if u could change or watever..etc"
2006-11-10 17:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you have something important to do that is family related. Make sure you are clear that it is just for family and she isn't welcome. If that doesn't work you have to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Just do it in a way that isn't hurtful. By telling her how you feel you are making her a better person because no one will want to be around her if she continues this behavior!
2006-11-10 17:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get another friend and say that is your roommate and the roommate wants your friend out or ill go up on the rent
2006-11-10 16:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't invite her IF you invite or ask her politly and you should really tell her how you feel. if i was you don't go around hers fro a few weeks after talking to her BUT only if she gets mad let things die off a bit. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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2006-11-10 17:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by danni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have a surprise for her outside, once she's out lock the door and yell in victory!
Or, tell her you need to go somewhere.
2006-11-10 17:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Aliza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lie and tell her that you have to go somewhere, If she forgets then just start putting your shoes on and grab your keys, but dont leave just kind of lead her to the door. Email me and tell me how it goes! shelbyfoster@sbcglobal.net
2006-11-10 17:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by shelbyfoster@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same prob so when she calls tell her that you are bizzy and cant talk so now that will buy you some time to tell her somthing
2006-11-10 17:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by morgan f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fart and Belch on her.
Ask her if she's ever thought of experimenting with the lesbian lifestyle?
Tell her that you hear her mother calling.
Tell her that K-Fed is lying naked in her bedroom.
Tell her straight out that she's over stayed her welcome and to get out!
2006-11-10 17:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋