Here is the scenario - I dated a guy a few years ago that I dumped because he was starting to show signs of being a control freak and possibly abusive. I still have to say he was the sexiest guy I dated and he was the one that I dated for the longest period of time. We never slept together but things were getting really intense. I have long since moved on but lately I have been having several lucid dreams about him that are usually sexual in nature. Thing is, I want nothing to do with this guy but when I wake up, he is all I can think of. I'm just puzzled why it is always him in these dreams.
2006-11-10 08:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by It'sJustMe 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My guess is that you still have unresolved feelings about the relationship.
It's possible that something has happened recently that brought you back into contact with these feelings, even if only on an unconscious level.
Maybe you are wondering what you missed. Maybe you're lonely and your mind is putting you in these dream situations based on memories of a time when you felt close to someone.
Either way, it sounds like there are some things you need to let go of.
2006-11-10 09:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Minds are tricky things. Your subconscioius mind is trying to find someone to symbolize your helpless conscience. He is the one who will fit in and probably something caused to have dream like that because certain clip of the memory lives in your mind and that is why.
2006-11-10 17:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it is because you regret not taking the relationship to another level. At least to see where things could have gone. And even though you have moved on in your life, you still remember how intense the feelings were, and you crave to feel those things again. (hunt him up, screw the hell out of him, and move on)
2006-11-10 17:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by debilee66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy you regret not sleeping with him. You should have jumped him when you had the chance. Now you probably marry some bald overweight 2 pump chump
2006-11-10 17:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce Tzu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably a part of you that wonders what would have happened if you stayed together. Try not to worry about it. Find things to distract yourself from it.
2006-11-10 17:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're dealing with some emotions and using your memory of him to help resolve it.
2006-11-10 17:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by mecasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Digital must be getting better and so has transmission. Either that or rearrange the furniture in your room.
2006-11-10 16:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some say when you dream of someone means there dreaming of you too.others might say it has to do with you subconcious mind,or you need to set things straight with him.
2006-11-10 17:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by d4rkprincess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it, you want to sleep with him
2006-11-10 16:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by goodtimesgladly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋