2006-11-10 08:20:17 · 25 answers · asked by Dean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People SHOULD wait to have sex for AFTER marriage. Too many people have the misconception that you have to have sex before marriage. But if you really love the other person for themself, than you will love them even more and wait. FOR men.... It would really show how much you love that person if you tell them that you would wait. Not to mention they would respect you more if you do. And if you do wait, im sure the woman will try to make your wildest dreams come true, since she knows that you waited till after marriage, and it would make it THAT MUCH MORE SPECIAL between the two of you !!! Goodluck!!
2006-11-10 17:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by LovePoet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people should wait to have sex till they are married. Not only do you avoid pregnancy (which can occur even if you use protection) and STD's But all the complecations that come with it. Sex is a beautiful thing that should be saved for someone special. Both me and my husband waited and it was the most beautiful thing ever. We were able to get to know each other before we totally committed to each other. We both know that we saved something special for each other. There is also the old adage why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
2006-11-10 20:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by tiredofw8ing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people should save sex for marriage. That's the way God design it to be. We should date a person for a year or two and that way we could get to know them and they us. It's not hard to do if you want a lasting marriage. It will take the power of God to sustain you to faithful during the wait, that's why it is so important to allow Jesus to be your Lord and guide. For without Jesus we can do nothing. Think about it. God bless you.
2006-11-10 16:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not necissary to save sex for marriage. If you're sure you're going to marry the person you're with, then go ahead and do it... But don't waste your virginity on a passer-by that will have no significance in your life. Remember, if its both you and your partner's first time, then that's just something else that you both shared and that you will remember for the rest of your lives.
2006-11-10 16:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think people should wait. What if you marry someone and you dont like having sex with them? Then youre stuck. Having a healthy marriage involves having a healthy sex life also. The top two reasons couples get divorced is over money issues and sex issues. So say you wait and have sex after you are married, then what happens when you start to get curious and wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone else; its our human nature to be curious.
2006-11-10 16:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gaily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh i use to think so. some people are taught that they are to save it, some just feel that way. i thought it should be saved and i also was taught that. but then there came a point in my life when i was out on my own - not living under my parents anymore and i figured out how sheltered i was. i am sure this happens to most people. i would say its all personal preference, if you are ready go for it. dont be forced into doing anything you dont want to do. that never ends well. i have figured out this - you alone answer for yourself. you are your own happiness and no one else's opinion matters so do whatever it is that makes you happy.
2006-11-10 16:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel it is a good idea. It makes the experience, communication and union a commitment. Oftentimes it is hard to wait till then. Sex is pressured to youth too soon. It is better when the relationship is mutual, satisfying and
mature.
2006-11-10 18:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by strong1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had.
Seems to me, my X and I focused on the wrong thing early on as we were developing our relationship. The sex was great, but i think that made me think that everything else would be great.
It wasn't.
If we hadn't been so wrapped up in the sex, i think we'd have realized we weren't right for each other.
2006-11-10 16:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if they want to roll the dice at the possibility of not having good sexual chemistry which is a major part of a successful marriage.
2006-11-10 16:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I wish I had. I've only been with two guys(including my husband). He hasn't only been with me either, but he hasn't been a male whore or anything. I have better things to worry about than his sexual past. We only married each other and we married for life. That's more than sex. If people want to, then they should. But, it's really not that big of a deal, and it's a personal preference.
2006-11-10 16:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋