all my friends are annoying or hard work. i am enjoying my own company at the moment. does this mean i am selfish and destined to be a loner or what?
2006-11-10 07:55:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no, it just means you want some time to your self.
try talking to new people at work etc..maybe your just in need of a social change.
2006-11-10 07:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily it could only mean that you are burned out by some others inability to be genuine and caring the way friends are supposed to be. Who needs snide or annoying remarks or selfish idiots for friends? At least you know where you stand when it comes to pleasing yourself. If some people can get away with it- they will enjoy draining you of any enjoyable moments at all in your life. Who needs that? It is better to have one or two good friends then dozens of fair weather friends. If it is selfish then I am all for being selfish myself.
2006-11-10 08:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you're not selfish or destined to be a loner. There's certain friends that I don't really like spending time with, but unfortunately for you, all your friends are like that. You just need people who share interests with you, aren't annoying, and have time for you.
2006-11-10 08:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid too. I don't know why friends become so selfish, locked in own cage. Not willing for out going at all. How to find answer:
Let us hurry to love people, they depart so quickly.
I even consider to just meet someone on net to just exchange the feelings or support each other to make life/friendship make some difference how to deal with the lonely very comfortable life.
I want to join some Cyber to have life talk with very friendly and happy people before I go to work, or after if I really have nothing to do.
2006-11-10 08:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that you are a loner...some people are. You might also have reached that time in your life where it is time to move on. Many people grow up with a group of friends but by the time they graduate from high school, most of these groups break up. You will form new relationships depending on where you work, go to school or whatever social activity it is that you do. Or you just might choose to keep to yourself. I have several friends that keep to themselves and I am one of the few people they hang with. Relax and see what the future holds.
2006-11-10 08:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you learn as you get older is that friends are not always for ever.
People change is they get older and sometimes you just out grow each other.
I took the difficult decision to drop one friend after 5 years because he was just too demanding, let me down so many times and any contact with him was a nightmare.
Real friends should be fun to be with and the relationship should be beneficial to both of you in some way.
Don't worry about moving away from these guys, they could be holding you back from finding the real friends you desrve.
2006-11-10 08:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go in seasons. Sometimes you change and your friends stay the same or vica versa. Very few friends are for a lifetime. It is good that you are spending time with yourself. You are really the best friend you can have. You will make a friend you have a lot in common with, just keep doing things that make YOU happy. :o)
2006-11-10 07:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No yu are not Selfish,ma friends is more annoying than yu think, ma friends is on 4th Grade and i am on 5th Grade,see yu need to cooperate with their manners even its annoying and helpful etc. and sometimes being alone is normal,i have many times being alone in ma house when ma mom go to her office or work.
2006-11-10 08:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I am in the same situation.
Maybe you just need some time on your own until you meet different people with interests more like yours.
In the meantime, don't stress and enjoy the break :)
2006-11-10 07:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sheldon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it just means that you like to spend time with your self. You get annoyed easly huh..?Youll come around and start hanging out with them.. i just takes time.. also some new friends might be a good idea.. dont forget your old ones;; just make a couple of new ones.
2006-11-10 08:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I think I am the same, I don't mind friends every now and then but most of the time I'm happy when they leave me alone.
They are not bad people, I just can't do with them being around all the time.
2006-11-10 07:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋