Do I need to call the police the next time? Or file for seperation even though I have no money. I have put a call into some low income apartments to see when one is available. I was hoping to leave after the first of the year. Does anyone know the correct procedure on this and with hardly any money? Please help!
2006-11-10 06:49:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetie, get out of there as fast as u can. It's not worth it!!! Don't wait for the next time u have kids u don't want to end up in the hospital next time. Just call cops now and tell them everything about it, trust me they will help u and they make shore he's not bothering and abusing u anymore. If u care about your kids u will do that for them and for u. If he was abusive all this time he's not gonna stop and u shouldn't trust him if he says that it was the last time and I will never do it again. He will!!! Call cops take your children and run from him as fast as u can. And don't worry after u talk to cops they make shore he's not going to come close to u. So don't worry sweetie, it will be OK if do the right thing for u and your children. It's probably going to be hard for u in the beginning, with money but if u love your children u will find a good gob and u be fine. Little by little and u be much better without him!!!
2006-11-10 07:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's physical abuse then you don't have to wait for a next time. Call police now, file report, press charges. A restraining order would also be immediately placed if you want and he won't be able to come back to the home. Under the portection order, temporary custody and support should also be addressed.
2006-11-10 07:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call information and ask them for a number to a local women's shelter. They would be able to help you out with a place to stay until the first of the year when you can get into your place and help to keep you and your child safe and hidden from your husband. I hope everything works out and by all means for the sake of the children please leave ASAP. Don't wait!
2006-11-10 06:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time he hit you, you should have left. Don't wait for the next time, you and your kids need to leave know, even if you have to wait until he leaves for work or when he goes to sleep. Pack your kids a bag and one for your self and the first chance you get get out of there, if not for yourself then for your kids.
2006-11-10 07:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a family member come over with a truck and get you the kids and your things while hes at work. then file for divorce and press charges
2006-11-10 06:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by i_like_bears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up, leave, stay with family, when he comes around call the cops and get an order on him.
2006-11-10 06:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are women shelters that you can and should go to you don't need money to go to them. i urge you to get out of that relationship for the safety of you and your kids befor it's too late.go to your police station and report him and ask for the resources to the local woman shelters for abuse. good luck and get away as fast as you can....
2006-11-10 07:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money doesn't matter. just secure a place even if it's small, and chose just a few things to go with you. remember, after the dust settles, you can go back and get the rest of it.
2006-11-10 06:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by hero08291997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to do is for protection for you and the kids there is programs out there to help you. cabinet for families and children should be able to help. there is safe haven programs for abusive situations. don't let you or the children be hit on GETOUT............ stay with family or friends...
2006-11-10 06:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by rachael s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the womens abuse hot line they will help you if your willing to help your self.1-800-295-8014
2006-11-10 06:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋