I really need help with this, Everytime Me & my boyfriend have sex, its a very painful experience because when we do it, I swell up down there & I become very sore. Usually It's my inner labia. I was just wondering if this is normal, if not are there any remedies for this?
2006-11-10 06:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by lovlouis 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok. these people are nuts.
this happens to me a lot too. the sex itself doesnt hurt, but after wards my vagina gets swollen and stings. also when i pee after sex it stings. it goes away after about 30 minutes to an hour. i asked my doctor and she said its normal but doesnt happen to a lot of women. she siad the main cause for this is crazy sex.. lol. ask your boyfriend to be Little more gentle and things should be ok.
oh, also... i almost forgot to mention... if he eats you out before sex, and you dont use a condom during sex. and his saliva and *** mix, that can create a burning sensation and can add to the swelling.
dont rule out sex all together talk to you boyfriend and ask him to relax a bit... no more animal sex! :)
2006-11-10 06:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by bar22bie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are using condoms, then you may not be able to use latex condoms, so try other condoms. I had that problem before but I quit using condoms and now i have a 13 month old little girl!
2006-11-10 14:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by babigurl_1412 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a water based lubricant and see if it makes a difference.
2006-11-10 14:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course thats not normal, sex should not hurt. Either you're too dry and should use lube or you're allergic to latex. if you use lube and change the kind of condom and it still hurts, see your doctor.
2006-11-10 14:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You BOTH need to be checked out..you and him MIGHT be passing something back and forth.
And if he scoffs about going...get yourself another boyfriend.
(I am not trying to ne mean when I say that. but you hurt after you have sex...so this DOES include him...if he cares anything about you, he will ALSO go!)
Good luck, sweetheart.
S.
2006-11-10 14:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you using condoms, if so you might be allergic to latex.. I would get checked out by the gyn doc.
2006-11-10 14:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it might be a yeast infection are something like that i feel that when i have a yeast infection and you can have a yeast infection without any symtoms
2006-11-10 14:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but it sounds like it may be an STD. I would make an appointment with your gynocologist right away. Good luck!
2006-11-10 14:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by evDub 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
try lubrication
2006-11-10 14:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋