Well she is 18 and she had sex for the frist time and she ended up preg. Mind you she didnt know that she was preg at the time. She started having some very bad pains in her back and some crams. Kinda like period cramps. So she thought that she may be preg. So she went to the planning parenthood clinic and she tested postive. But they told her that she has a ectopic pregnancy. meaning the baby is growing outside of the uderas. She is so sad. She knew though that she didnt want to keep the baby. But she was even worse knowing that she was at risk of dieing because of the baby. So my quesion is what are some thiings that I can do to cheer her up?
thank you so much for reading:)
2006-11-10 06:31:27 · 9 answers · asked by acoats2006 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You're support and freindship is all you can give her right now.
Try to be strong for her, offer to be with her, and check in on her after she has had the procedure and make sure she is okay. Maybe stay the night with her, bring some movies and some food or something and just spend time with her. Maybe some girl time with a good friend will be just what she needs.
Knowing she has a caring and loyal friend by doing some of the things I mentioned will be a comfort to her!!
2006-11-10 07:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Try to cheer her up by helping her take her mind off of it, I know it's not easy hearing news like that but if she knows that she has someone to ride this out with then she won't feel so alone. I would also let her know that your her best friend and no matter what you will always be there for her.
Good Luck.
Hope everything gets better
2006-11-10 14:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you'll always support her and she can count on you no matter what. talk about different options and help her sort her life out. if her parents would be supportive maybe discuss it with them and all 3 of you can help her? (only if you're a very close friend)
go on:
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/ectopic.html
or
http://www.ectopicpregnancy.com/facts.htm
or
http://www.ectopicpregnancy.com/facts.htm
this isn't the end for her!
hope this helps! :-)
2006-11-10 14:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate.smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be there, make sure you are another close friend are there when she is at her saddest. my friend had an abortion at 18 also and that was 12 almost 13 years ago and it still hurts her to think she would have another kid now. it gets better with time ,but she will need her loved ones to help her through
2006-11-10 14:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her, maybe ask if she wants you to go with her when they end the pregnancy. Etopic pregnancies can get bad real quick so it needs to be taken care of right away. So be with her and support her
2006-11-10 14:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by HappyGoLucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really isnt too much u can do to cheer up someone who had an abortion. just be there for her and talk to her, or maybe cange the subject and think about fun things or go out shopping. lol
2006-11-10 14:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there to support her, show and tell her you are there for her if she needs anything. Best of luck to your friend.
2006-11-10 14:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out and spend lots of time with her. let her talk to u and tell u her problems. so she can get it off her back.
2006-11-10 14:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!I'am sorry to hear that, let her now that everything is going to be okay on not to worry about it!It is hard thing to go through though...Good Luck
2006-11-10 14:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by R.J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋