Friend or Foe?
I have a particular situaion , that has been bothering me for some reason that leaves doubt if a close friend of mine is really my friend, we ll I notice that on my birthday, me and a few friends went to dinner and she gave me present and inside the box was a box of cookie dough and a bottle of vodka, and she said she gave it too me because I always call her when I 'm drunk ,and so next time when I'm drunk I can bake at the same time, then, later on that evening, out of the cleatr blue she asks my friend, not me if I 'm sleeping with my roommate, who happens to be a godd friend of mine whom has helped me out financially, but who is just a good friend, and I asked her why do she assume I sleeping with him and she says because she doesn't understand why he's so nice to me and I haven't slept with him.. and I don't know if it's jsut me or was that rude,and then plus, everytime she sees me shes putting me down, for instance that same night, she tells me, oh I think you're putting on some
2006-11-10 05:43:26 · 11 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Plus, there are many situations, besides this one, for instance, we were at a bbq that this guy whom I had been seeing at the time, invited me too, so me and her went, and i guess the guy was staring at me alot during the party, but she puts him out on front street, by asking him ..why do you keep staring at her(me) and tells me him she needs a boyfriend?so are you looking for one? I'm like damn..then another guy, came up to me and was like i like your hair, and she just abrubtly disrupted him and yelled, Iook good too baby, and I told her, yeah you do, but then I thought ...wait a minute..!
2006-11-10 05:56:52 · update #1
I'm a virgo
2006-11-10 07:13:51 · update #2
She doesn't sound like a very good friend. She does sound like she is constantly trying to hurt you. It's not blatant either. It sounds like she tries to do it in a sneaky, 'friendly' way.
The main way to look at it is: how do you feel when you are around her? It sounds as though she makes you feel bad. Our friends are just that because we enjoy their company and they make us feel good.
Life is too short to be around people who make you feel bad.
2006-11-10 05:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by wendyshannon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand i'm somewhat older than you and that has surpassed off to m too considering i stay greater desirable away then my acquaintances. you are able to 0.5 comedian tale and say' whats up you men call me the subsequent time you do something i will force down or you are able to come out with me too" or something like that. be in contact and save inviting them. interior the period in-between attempt to fulfill new acquaintances closer with the aid of fact your different acquaintances do no longer look as considerate as you. it particularly is the concern I even have in some cases. you do no longer prefer acquaintances who won't make the attempt to be your pal and incorporate you and a minimum of ask you to connect.
2016-10-03 12:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely jealous of you and most likely a very insecure person. She may even have some feelings for your room ate and that is why she is hating on the 2 of you so much.
2006-11-10 05:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either got a mean streak that real friendship has no room for or she's a few jellybeans short of an Easter basket.
2006-11-10 05:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's jealous. and spiteful. be careful as this combination usually make for a trouble maker.
i would not consider this a true friend.
good luck.
2006-11-10 05:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow shes a friend u definitely dont need in ur life...Ive been thru this so many times wit girls u almost remind me of myself..lol...what sign are u???
2006-11-10 06:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Miz AmERYKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a good friend to me.
2006-11-10 05:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is your friend but also a b itch. She probably acts that way to everyone
2006-11-10 05:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person is not really your friend. you're being sensitive. probably foe.
2006-11-10 05:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
foe.... shes immature and you should just move on
2006-11-10 05:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋