2006-11-10 05:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You compliment each other perfectly. Relax and talk it out with her of how you could join forces to meet society's challenges. That is what wives and husbands are all about. Staying together in spite of and despite odds, hardships and misunderstandings. Good luck.
2006-11-10 17:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean to say you are mismatched. For a start clearly divide your duties and responsibilities. Let your respective strengths be the basis of this division (e.g. you handle money matters). Stick to your jobs faithfully. If unnecessary, don't overlap. That should reduce much of the attrition. Try hard before giving up. If all efforts fail, you should seperate legally.
2006-11-11 03:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time she will learn from you and you will pick up her characteristics. If it is something that you want to work upon immediately, take help of her friends. Ask her friends to discuss about worldly topics and on subject related to money matters.
Involve her in some financial activity.
I have a similar situation and I ask my wife (who is a housewife) to calculate my taxes and find out something on the net ... you just have to think of ways else she will never change.
2006-11-10 13:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by NS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to know what is important and what is not. and one more thing is what to tell and what not to tell? your wife is OK? she is perfect it is better to have that , if she spends a lot with out money sense it is problem. without money business sense is OK.
and more simple solution you give Ur some talkativeness to your wife and take Lil silence from her all its over that's it!
2006-11-10 13:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go out making many freinds. filter them develop the attitude of the correct judgement to anluse what is hapening. teach ur wife money matters by going to the shoping banks and other business issues.
2006-11-10 14:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You survive by each of you doing what you do best and the other one letting you.
If you're better with the money than you should handle it....and she should do what she does best.
I have to say from your description of her....it doesn't sound good.
2006-11-10 13:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you married and loved each other becuz your both different let her handle what she does best and you handle what you do best, if money is an issue then make out a budget and stick to it. i know emergencys come up and sometimes you have to break a budget but only break it if its an emergency! just hang in there
2006-11-11 00:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like 90% of the others do.
2006-11-10 23:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pegasus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you survive before you got married?
2006-11-10 14:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your conscience is clear is good, don't worry about the other misunderstand you, you sound nice man
2006-11-10 19:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋