i became pregnant and had my first son. he is now a year old, and i am now seventeen. i am six months pregnant, and my boyfriend wants to keep the baby. he provides for nathan, my one year old son, and i know he will provide for the new baby. Sometimes i feel like he is cheating on me though. when i ask him about it he tells me he just has to get out of the house and be alone. but when he goes it is usually the whole night...is this a sign of cheating?
2006-11-10 05:32:31 · 14 answers · asked by ashmstan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes because if he leaves and dont come back to the next day he is cheating he should be at home wit you trying to prepare for the newborn just leave him before you get hurt
2006-11-10 05:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by BRITTANY R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, It is True That Sometimes our Men Do Need Their Alone Time. But, Sometimes Their Asking For Alone Time With Another Female. The Only Way To Be Sure Is When He Comes Home Smell Him, Every Womans Scent Is Unique. If That Doesn't Work, It's Crazy But This Is How I Found Out My Ex-Boyfriend Was Cheating. Don't Have Sex With Your Boyfriend For Atleast 2 Days, After He Decides To Leave Out, When He Comes Back Check His BallSack, If Its Heavy Then He's Being True Because Everyday A Mans Balls Fills Up With Sperm, But If They Feel Empty Then He's Definatly Cheating. Hope This Works.
2006-11-10 14:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by lovlouis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say he could be. With out knowing all the details it would be hard to tell. Ask your self how is the sex life at home. The thing about guys are that if they are not getting it at home then they will turn to someone who will fill that void. Both of you seem kind of young so he maybe just trying to deal with some stress. But even then staying out all night isn't the way to handle it.
I would suggest two things first Pray like you have never prayed before and ask for the Lords help and mercy. You are his child and he still loves you very much.
The second thing is find someone to watch you other child and follow him. If you find that he is cheating call him on it then drop him like a bad habit and make him pay the childsupport because if he sgoing to do it now then he will do it everytime things are not going well at home.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-10 13:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy_45 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all your head title Say's you where raped at the age of 16 you need to talk about this before you can worry about the man in you life. It is very important that you get help and talk to someone like a counselor and work this out cause maybe without you knowing could be part of your problem with your relationships . About him leaving at night you should put your foot down and pin him to the wall and ask him what is really going on . I think him staying out all night is not only wrong but he is up to know good. Good luck home you take some of my advise.
2006-11-10 15:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be cheating but the fact that his excuse is to be alone and he stays out all night could mean anything to be honest. It really could be any numbe rof things, Drugs, drinking, hanging out with friends, seeing girl.... ASK him directly, what does he do when he is alone. Where does he go all night. See if his reasons backs his story up
2006-11-10 13:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are toooo young to have a second child in your life! An if he is out all night he is too immature to have a child. Give the baby up for adoption to a stable family.
2006-11-10 15:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I think he is cheating on you. If he is leaving at night and not coming home until morning, that is when he is cheating. He is probably sleeping with another person. Dump him like last month's shoes. And get an abortion.
2006-11-10 14:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some thing is not right because even if he is not cheating, he still should not be leaving you all night. You might want to consider leaving him, I wouldn't trust a man who doesn't come home to his family.
2006-11-10 13:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound good. I wouldn't trust that behavior at all, but you need to talk more with him. You do have his baby on the way. You should try to work YOUR feelings out about it, but you can only do that by talking with him.
2006-11-10 13:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Daisey04 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All what u should do now is talking directly to him.... asking him why he stay all night alone??? and where???
u also tell him abt ur feelings and that u dont like that....
anyway....he shouldnt leaves u all night
2006-11-10 13:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by A_lovely_doctoR 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋