My best-friend is going to run away from her home and come live with me. What do you think?
2006-11-10
05:31:36
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Shes 14 and is totally controled by her parents, they wont let her wear make-up, pants, and she hates it!
2006-11-10
05:38:02 ·
update #1
She got grounded 2 months for skipping the morning session of church because we were spending at a friends house. and could not get there in time
2006-11-10
05:39:21 ·
update #2
Not a good idea...for her...or for you. Living with someone is harder than just seeing each other day to day. It puts a stress on the friendship, and quite often you end up wishing you never agreed. Tell your friend to work it out and stay home. If she's truly being abused by someone in her household, tell her to get help. Tell her you'll go with her. Running away often causes more problems than it cures. It teaches that you don't have to face up to things when the going gets tough. Working through tough situtations gives you the tools to work through other tough stuff. It's all a part of the growing up process and often hurts. Just remember, everything is temporary, except death. Don't mean to get gross here, but it's true. Too many teens get too dramatic in their approach to solving problems and don't think through each idea properly. Acting before thought often leads to bigger problems. I'm glad that you've had the presence of mind to question your friends' idea about living with you. It SHOULD give you pause to consider it. Help her work it out. You'll both be stronger for it. <*)))><
2006-11-10 05:39:17
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answered by Sandylynn 6
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Do you love your parents? Cause if you let her live with you and your parents dont tell her parents your parents could get in a lot of trouble, even go to jail. And then you will have to go live in a girl's home, and your friend will be mad because she has to go back. And you will probably never see each other again. The consequences just isnt worth the problem.
2006-11-10 05:50:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Bon Jovi - Runaway BA: Yeah, it kind of feels they could continuously give up at my condo on their means and I could speak them out of it. Maybe that is why they stopped through. I ran away whilst I was once in prime college. I bumped into my satisfactory (woman) buddy even as I was once simply escaping the seize of the vice foremost. I desire I hadn't, on account that she involved such a lot approximately me. BA2: I don't have any inspiration. Some of them submit it on thier profile
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answered by degregorio 4
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No, not a good idea. How old is she? She could tell her parents that she would like to stay with you for awhile. Running away gets the police involved.
2006-11-10 05:33:55
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answered by mzindica 4
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hey im 14 too and my parents lets me do all that stuff you cant i dont think i can live with that i dont think you should run away cuz you wont make it out there just talk to your parents about how you feel and try to show them that your not the kind of person who they dont trust try and show them your respect and mayb theyll let you have more freedom
2006-11-10 05:52:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Well...it depends on what the reason is....if she's being like abused or something....then it's a good thng to get away....but if it's something that will eventually pass....then maybe it's not the greatest idea because it could cause more controversy.
2006-11-10 05:34:18
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answered by Anonymous
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dont do it... i ran away from home so many times, and my relationship with my parents now sucks. just tell her to talk to her parents and tell them how she feels, and tell her to tell them that she is getting older, and that she should be able to make some of her own decesions. also, make sure she tells them that she wants more freedom, but she also wants them their to help guide her through the decesions that she is no so sure about...in the long run it will all work out....good luck!!
2006-11-10 05:44:34
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answered by ashmstan 1
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She shold stay and dont get in trobel but here parents probaly dont want her to be loking soso cuite as she is now i cant were sracts are make up so she shold stay because her perents well be worrid and they well miss here alot and they love her alot but they dont want here to brake auot
2006-11-11 07:59:17
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answered by Renee N 1
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Tell her to go home chill out and smoke a blunt a day
2006-11-10 05:33:45
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answered by Simple1 6
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I think that you should go tell somebody cause that could lead into something serious
2006-11-10 05:34:23
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answered by NAKIYA C 2
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