morning I think he is a straight up liar but how do I be sure? He never calls to let me know where he is and most the times he waits til I fall asleep. I just had a baby and I don't have time to play games. He told me two weeks ago the reason he stayed out all night was because he wanted to see if I would call to check on him. What kind of man would want his wife to worry when I have five kids at home to take care of. I found out he got a hotel room in his name and he told me he got it for his friend . What a lie.
2006-11-10 05:14:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's cheating and if I were you, I would seriously consider some form of BC....you should have seen the Signs long before now and done something to prevent from having so many kids. Sorry, but you asked and I am sure you won't get many sympathetic answers...
2006-11-10 05:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He stayed out all night just to see if you would call him??? What an *sshole. He is turning the situation around and is trying to make you look like the bad person. If you just had a baby than he should be home helping you, and making sure you are getting some sleep. He shouldn't lay that crap on you and keep you up worrying about him. You need to quit having babies for one thing. Get yourself together and try to put money a side and move out. Do you have any family support that you can rely on if you leave him? You can go on welfare for awhile, if you aren't all ready and move on with your life. But it will be hard raising all of those kids by yourself.
Having babies doesn not lower your IQ. That comment is not true.
2006-11-10 05:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that dick. Of course he's cheating. I cheated before, and the phone calls in the middle of the night, and sneaking around on the phone is part of it. My man was to controlling for me to ever get away with staying out that late, but all the signs you mentioned are definate of cheating. Confront him about it, and tell him to stop playing games, and no more bull, because if not, he needs to find a new home to go to every night (or at 3 or 4 in the morning!)
2006-11-10 05:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by StonerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating but to be sure follow him one night so that if you guys should divorce you have evidence of his lies. I have noticed that of lately guys have lots of kids with there wives because they want kids and decides that hey let's start a family and as soon as the wife is pregnant and has more than one they want a woman who has none of these burdens. Girl don't watch and fret about him i am sure you are a beautiful girl dress up get a baby sitter to watch your kids and go enjoy a night out so that when he comes home at 3 in the morning you ain't there let him be the one to worry where you are and be discreet in what you are doing make him beg like the dog he is.
2006-11-10 05:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question. However, it seems you need a little reassurance. Yes, he is cheating on you and the lame excuse he gave about wanting you to check up on him was proof of that. I wouldn't wait to hear more lies from him. He will never tell you the truth because he knows he's a jerk for what he's doing. You should pack up your children and move on. Don't waste your time figuring out what he wants to do, make your move and get on with your life so you can finally be happy and meet the man who will be a better example for both you and your children. Any man who cheats on his wife and kids isn't worth your time to find out what he does what he does. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-11-10 05:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maam!wake up he is a cheater you are boring and he wants new meat , you probably grip all the time and all them da mn kids he just want to feel like a king and Im sure his new piece on the side gives all and some. He then comes home so you can clean his cumm ie drawers! Get out quick and go for child support. Hurt him in the pockets. Remember all men are dogs and if the opportunity presents itself and he attracted any man will stray!
2006-11-10 05:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness no - he's not cheating on you - all that stuff is for work. Work calls at 3 AM. His boss makes him rent hotel rooms. The company tells him to step outside at 1 AM and whisper into the phone. (rolling eyes here)
You already know this - he wants to enjoy the nice safe comfortable home environment you work your a$s off to create for him, but he still wants to run around and poke his pathetic little pecker into every stupid broad who will let him.
Divorce. NOW, before you have any more children by this sleaze ball.
2006-11-10 06:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies, why are you still with him? You have 5 kids to raise, you don't need to raise him, too. His mother should've taught him better than that. He's not worth being married to. He's causing too much stress in your life. You already have too much stress from your kids. But they're your kids, you have no choice but to be their mother. He's your husband and you do have the choice to file for a divorce. Hey if he doesn't agree for a divorce, you can do it without him by going to Dominican Republic. I know a few people who's gone there to get a divorce without their spouse. It's legal in that country. Plus it's a beautiful country and the weather is great. Your children will love to visit. Yeah don't leave him with the kids when/if you go. You never know what he's up to. Wish you well.
2006-11-10 05:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to do the same thing, I'm sorry but it sounds like he is. Do some investigating of your own and go with what your instincts are telling you. You need to listen to that voice inside you when it tells you something is not right. Are better yet just come out and ask him or start following him and see what he's doing, maybe ask a friend you can trust to help you.
2006-11-10 05:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know he is lieing to you. The question is are you willing to accept this and live with it the rest of your life. You sound like a strong woman who cares deeply for her children. If he cant appreciate that in you then he doesn't deserve you and you certainly deserve and will find someone who does just that.
Karma has a way of chasing and finding each of us for both the good and bad things we bestow on one another. Wouldn't want to be your husband in the future if he doesn't stop his destructive behavior. He will loose the beautiful, strong woman you are and are becoming.
Best of luck, stay strong and know that you are valuable with him and even more valuable with out him.
2006-11-10 05:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by smilealot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋