this guy did not set out to fall in love with his best friend but it happend he has great respect for his best friend it is not like he just want's to have sex with her or any thing, can best friends realy be just friends does love grow when you are to close to your best friend?
2006-11-10 05:03:31 · 11 answers · asked by cool guy roger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure you can be married and fall in love with somebody else. Feelings are feelings and it's hard to control them. Anyway, your question confuses me. It seems live two different questions.
2006-11-10 11:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends can remain best friends so long as sex doesn't become a factor. Once you cross that line, then things become difficult. A man who truely loves his wife would never think about anyone else because she should give him all of what he needs. However, there are those who claim they fell in love with someone else. Why couldn't you discuss with your wife all the things that was discussed with the best friend? Obviously the guy didn't truely love his wife. I married my best friend and vice versa..... that's what you are supposed to do.
2006-11-10 05:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only do I agree with AVP Rocks but I will also add to it! Ask yourself this question:"what is the most important thing about this whole issue"? If you answered MY CHILD and MY HUSBAND you will have answered CORRECT!! I mean really??!! You (and your friend) made the decision to get married and have children and now you are both acting like young single people who are "foot loose and fancy free" with no regard to the moral dilemma that you are placing on your family! Also, you both are taking the young guys that are either just wanting or using you both for sexual pleasure or they really have no clue (naive) of what games you are both playing!! GROW UP! If your friend does not understand this then lose her like a bad habit before your life has totally been screwed up. So yes, its cheating to answer your question.
2016-05-22 03:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while he's still married? well that depends. i mean, once he realized he loved his best friend did he settle the relationship with his wife and let her move on? now that would be a real man.
yes you can fall in love with your best friend. i did. we didn't start out as friends at all. but we worked our way up and eventually grew on each other. two years later and we are married and expecting a baby.
2006-11-10 05:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM DAH>>>>> happens all the time.... too bad about your being married. I guess your wife is a little bummed ...
But that is what divorce court is all about.
Yeah it happens... but its supposted to happen when your single not married. ..but rent the movie when harry met Sally... that is a good description of best friend love. Its a strong one.... but usually a true feeling one... BUT NOT SUGGESTED for if your allready married.
2006-11-10 05:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by zachs mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible,but before proceeding forward confirm it is one sided love or the feeling is from both side.
2006-11-10 06:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by bps2902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible even if there are no problems in the marriage, he may just be bored with "the same ol' thing"
Sad, but possible
2006-11-10 05:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happened to me....however I think it signals that something is wrong in the marriage.
2006-11-10 05:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THAT HAPPENS SOMETHING IS WRONG IN THE MARRIAGE. THINGS HAPPEN ALL THE TIME 1 THING I AM LEARNING IS NOTHING STAYS THE SAME THINGS R CONSTANTLY CHANGING.
2006-11-10 12:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very possible
2006-11-10 05:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by tanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋