and have no one like you or to conform to society just to get other people to like you?
2006-11-10 05:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm a very quiet person in a very, very noisy world. When others bring attention to that, it makes it so much worse. I feel like I don't want to talk at all. I desperately wish for a place where I could just be me.
2006-11-10 07:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Carol B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guarantee there are SOME people just like you somewhere that would like you. Perhaps you're just one of those rare breeds that doesn't fit in with the average. Same with me. I only have like 10-20 friends... in my entire life. Most of my friends come and go, very few stick. Everyone else thinks I'm "cold" or a loser or whatever. *** 'em. Be yourself.. as long as you're not intentionally hurting others.
2006-11-10 05:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's better to be yourself, I am happy with the person I am and would never feel the need to try to impress another person. I have confidence and know that I am kind, honest and nice, if people choose not to like me then it's their loss and not mine.
2006-11-10 05:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends upon whether you are simply a liberated person, with a highly individualistic mind, or a social misfit and radical outcast..intentionally trying to instigate controversy....
2006-11-10 05:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you learn to be completely yourself. Just you, for you then you become free and not dependant on others opinions.
Society's rules and constraints can make us into puppets to please others.
Be yourself and you will be surprised at how people will still like you.
2006-11-10 05:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think people should change just to please other people but at the same time if you are doing something that is making people around you not like you maybe you should think about why ? if you are abnoxious, stuck up etc... maybe you should change for your self and your happiness
2006-11-10 05:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok many human beings do no longer like it while they try this yet I do. i admire how I say issues earlier i think of them by way of because of the fact this is often my effortless opinion and could make me snort when I later think of over what I reported.
2016-12-17 07:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by casimir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better? Better for who? The only question is whether or not YOU feel one or the other is better. Our feelings on the subject are irrelevant.
2006-11-10 05:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self someone will eventually like you
2006-11-10 05:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you that you are not likeable? Someone is lying to you.
2006-11-10 05:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋