I am 15 i havent lost mine yet but just wondering is it actually okay to lose it at 16 bcoz my friends mam actually gives her permission to have sex with her bf if they use protection and she is only 14.I no its ilegal but where all gona do it at some stage anyway!!!
2006-11-10 04:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well wen ur 16 its all legal and good so when your finally 16 you should have sex like a crazed monkey.
Unles your not ready blah blah.
I think 14 is a bit young to start having sex but then i know 13 yr olds who have done everything but sex.
Have fun!
2006-11-10 04:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it ok is not the right way to really think about it first off yes you may eventually do it but sex should be more than an action it should be feelings between two people who truly care about one another, and love one another, and commit to be with just each other. There was a time when parents actually told there children sex befor marriage was just not acceptable and that is the way it should be! Any guy worth having will respect you and like you for having enough respect for yourself to say no I am not doing that just because all my friends are. I was the last of all my friends and while they where all feeling guilty because they had forgotten thier morals I could still hold my head up high ,and today I can say these things to my daughter . This is a huge choice don't do it for the wrong reasons and then dislike yourself be strong enough to be different and better!! Make losing your Virginity a special thing not a cheap thing
2006-11-10 12:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by snaggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is okay, but I want you to understand why. At 15 I know you feel like an adult or close to it. But you are going to do a lot more growing and maturing. If you start having sex now, when you are 25 and meeting your future husband, you will regret giving such a precious part of you away to the snot nosed punks you are encountering right now Trust me, I've been there.
You have a lot more life ahead of you and you can't get your virginity back once you give it up. When you get out of high school there are going to be more cute guys to entertain in college, and you'll have to resist all of them too. But I'd rather see you wait a little longer. You don't even really decide what kind of person you want to be until you're at least 20-22. What until then, so that your decisions regarding who you share your body with are more in line with the adult you plan to be. That way you'll have no regrets.
2006-11-10 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by 10timesalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just not true that everyone's going to do it as a teenager. You need to decide what your life goals are before you do anything like that. Do you want to get married? Do you want to go to college? Have a career? What are your ultimate goals? Think about what it takes to achieve those goals. Is your past sex life going to affect any of that? Do you want a wholesome husband? If so, will he have a problem with you having a past sex life? Please remember that it is not true that everyone does it. I remained a virgin until I married and I am so glad I made that decision early on and stuck to it. There were plenty of times where I had the opportunity and the temptation to give in, but I reminded myself of my goals and decided that the goals were more important to me. The ONLY way to guarantee 100% protection from std's and pregnancy is to abstain. Please weigh everything in your mind, make your decision and resolve to stick to it. Also, guys really do respect you so much more when they know you are not a girl who just sleeps with all her boyfriends. Boyfriends come and go, but once you lose your virginity, it's gone and you can never get it back. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 12:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when I lost my virginity and now that I'm older I wished I would have waited. After my first time, I went crazy with the boys, I got a very bad reputation in high school. I lost most of my friends and guys only wanted to go out with me b/c they thought I would have sex with them. And the decent guys that I really wanted to be with and have a relationship with didn't want anything to do with me because they thought I was a slut. When I was finally ready to settle down it caused a lot of problems for me later in life with relationships with men. It is your decision to make, but before you do, make sure you have thought about it and make sure you know in your heart that you would not have regrets about it. I only wish I had some one to tell me what I'm telling you. When you do something that you regret, it can stay with you for a long time and can cause you a lot of pain and can cause the people who really love you a lot of pain. My parents were so hurt by my behavior and although we have a great relationship I wished I didn't do that to them. And it wasn't until I met my husband that I was finally able to let go of it and move on. Enjoy being a teenager, having fun with your friends, don't grow up before you have to. You have plenty of time for sex.
2006-11-10 13:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by hey culligan man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and 15 is too early. 16 is really the minimum limit for a girl-under that it is considered child molestation, psychologically and physically speaking. Plus, there is the risk of pregnancy. I would consider 18 a better limit, because being an adult means being able to handle such situations. Plus, you need to be ready and with a person you trust and have been together long enough to kno that this is what you want. Also, don't forget that a condom is necessary throughout sex, diseases and pregnancy can happen before ejaculation.
2006-11-10 12:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think it is okay to lose your virginity at sixteen IF YOU DO IT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. i am fifteen too and i am not planning to have any sex any time soon coz im nowhere near ready, but it depends. some sixteen year olds are with people they care about and trust, and, if thats the case, i think its okay, although even if i had a long term boyfriend i think id wait til i was about seventeen. dont sleep with the first guy you find, and dont wait and do it on your sixteenth birthday-theres no rush!
2006-11-10 12:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are married to the guy you are gonna lose it too!!!!!!!
NO it is not alright. Sex should only be practised by responsible adults; it is a gift from God to show love to each other.
it is not a sport to participate in. Are you sure your friends' mom is giving her permission or could your friend just be bragging? if she is giving permission, she is seriously abusing her; mentally,emotionally, physically & sexually. I feel sorry for your friend. please keep your self a virgin for the right person.
2006-11-10 12:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by puddintain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever is the age of consent is what parents or gaurdians can condone legally but it happens la the time you are right but are you ready beacuse ther i sno need to go on a quest for it is only one part of a greater intimate experience that can be great one day
2006-11-10 12:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to loose your virginity when you meet the right person, and you feel good about it within yourself. Don't set goals in your life with regards to sex, life itself will guide you in the correct direction.
sex is great fun if you feel good about it, but bad if you have done it for all the wrong reasons.
You don't have to prove yourself to anyone apart from yourself.
2006-11-10 12:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by W H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋