Is she a jerk off or am I?

Question

It's this girl I've know since since 6th grade. She is very opinionated and assertive. She always make snide, rude comments about me. I'm not really a senstive person, but she always big up sensitve subjects like my brother who is dead or my mother who used to be overweight. She has been riding me hard every since 6th grd. She calls herself my "friend". I'm honestly sick of her mouth, because one many she's attempting to spit in my face, then the next she's trying to lick my ***. And honestly it pisses me off.

I'M A GIRL AND I DON'T HANG OUT WITH HER SHE BRINGS HERSELF AROUND ME AND MY CLIQUE INTRUDING. I TELL HER TO BOUNCE, BUT SHE KEEPS COMING BACK LIKE A FREAKING ROACH.

I HAVE TOLD HER THAT I DON'T APPRECIATE IT AND TO SHUT THE F*** UP ALREADY. TO THE PEOPLE I'M A PUNK, I HAVE TAKEN THE FIRST STEP.

I MEANT TO SAY TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAID I'M A PUNK I HAVE TAKEN THE FIRST STEP, AND I DON'T EVEN ASSOCIATE WITH HER I JUST HAVE 4 OUT OF 4 CLASSES WITH HER.

Answer 1

She's an ignorant person let her go right out ya lyfe. And o yea tell her to get gone. Now she cant bother you

Answer 2

Well,like anything else in life...you have to TELL her how the things she says, how she says them and in front of who, makes you feel! She is not going to automatically get a clue on her own, ya know! You START by TELLING her!! How else will she EVER know?? If you don't tell her how she makes you feel, then shut up about it already! Nobody wants to hear about it if you can't take the first step! Think about what you want to say to her and be sure to include specifics-examples. Now, practice your speech to her, you want to mean what you say and say what you mean! Make it count so she'll get the point! You can do this!

Answer 3

Hey this chick needs to be taken out back and beaten. What she is doing is uncalled for and needs to be told. Really she should not be bring up your dead brother. You can not really call her your friend for that reason

Answer 4

I have a friend like that too. She is like that because she has some mental problem. Seriously, nobody in their right frame of mind behaves like that. Either bring your friend to a shrink (if you care enough abt this relationship) or just find yourself a new friend.

Answer 5

she's a jerk and you're a punk. why do u continue to hang out with someone who treats u poorly. i think u, assuming u are also female, should kick her @ss the next time she gets outta line if you're gonna keep hangin out with her. make her think twice about talkin rudely to u. either that or stop hangin with her.

Answer 6

Why are you complaining, She's been Riding You Hard since the 6th grade, I'd be happy.

Answer 7

Your the Jerk for remaining friends with this girl... It sounds like she's got issues... Come on honey do you need ppl like that around you...?

Answer 8

Your freind is a Jerk off , you do not need people like that in your life, they will just bring you down

Answer 9

This girl sounds like she is jealous and you intimidate her. People try to put other people down when they don't feel good about themselves. Be a better person and shrug it off. Distance yourself from you.

Answer 10

you don't need to be around this girl because she is toxic for you. you need to let her know that you don't want to hang out with her anymore, even if it pisses her off, at least she won't be able to hurt you anymore. i was in a similar situation where whenever this girl came around i felt awful. i let her know i didn't care to be around her and i don't have to see her anymore. it was worth it!