I am talking to this guy, and I added him to my address book. When I did I typed the wrong name. Because he is a new friend I have not really had to call him by his name. Last night I decided to send him an email and I called him the wrong name twice. It was a mistake and I sent him an email saying sorry. The thing is I have slept with this guy while thinking the whole time his name was something else based on what I typed in my address book.
Do you think I hurt his feelings? The guy's name that I called him I did not sleep with that guy nor do I even know a guy named that. I don't even know where I got the name from that I called him. Also I will add that when we slept together he got performance anxiety so I don't know if I have added salt to the wound or not, and no I did not call any names when we slept together. This was really a mistake. This guy is just suppose to be a booty call, but he speaks to me everyday. Tell me what you think. What have I done if anything.
2006-11-10 04:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I met this guy online with a few other guys, but he is the only one I slept with so maybe I got the name confused with someone I was just talking on the phone with, but if he is a booty call “on my end” does it even matter. I don’t know what I am for him since he may it his business to speak to me everyday. Also if I have to fix this besides saying sorry how do I do it.
2006-11-10 04:01:36 · update #1
I did that a few times while dating.. Called the guy by the wrong name. He didn't seem to matter. He said that I was with him not the other guy!!!!!
2006-11-10 06:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys HATE it when a girl calls them the wrong name (I HOPE you didn't call him the wrong name when you were sleeping with him - no wonder he had "performance anxiety"!!!)
Guys want to think that we're the only dude who's ever slept with you, if you say another man's name, that reminds us that we're not the first, and probably won't be the last and that really hurts our feelings..
If you want to keep dealing with this guy LEARN HIS NAME and never ever ever ever call him another guy's name!!!
2006-11-10 12:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry over such a small thing? Apologize for the error next time you see, or talk to him.
2006-11-10 12:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u just met him it shouldn't be a major problem. But if he step trying alot then u don't need him as a friend.
2006-11-10 12:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I called a chick the wrong name in bed once..
She noticed.. but never stopped f'n..
He will get over it .. trust me.
-HtJ
2006-11-10 12:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by hesterthehester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS LONG IA NOT WHEN YOU ARE HAVING SEX THEN YOU FINE
2006-11-10 12:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋