My friends visit each other from time to time but hardly ever come to visit me. I no they all have health problems like I do, but I sometimes wonder why they dont come to visit? One of my friends always used to call in when she was going to the shops, but that has stopped. I am female and am talking about my female friends. One of my friends wants to see a dvd I have, and the other day I happen to mention as have done in the past that I am still waiting for her to come and watch it, and she just told me to watch it if I wanted as she may not come for some time. I boldly asked why they dont visit me and they said they had no time, I think this is just an excuse as they visit each other and spent time with each other and dont include me very often. I think it is sad so it makes me wonder why? does anyone have any suggestions please?
2006-11-10 03:53:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I ask them if they wana go somewhere for a coffee and normally they say they too busy. Some say to me they will come and get me and take me for a coffee. Normally the ones that do this keep their word. I am a clean person and admittidly dont keep busy all the time, but try to keep busy. I have one friend that loves scrapping with me and we spend time together sometimes. I just feel so sad when I hear they been out to have a coffee and havent bothered to see if I would like to go. One of these friends I bought a car for and even she hardly comes here to see me. Very sad eh?
2006-11-10 07:13:32 · update #1
could be: your boring? your house is filthy? your annoying? who knows. stop whining and do something. go to their places. suggest places to meet up outside your place. if all else fails, try and find new friends.
2006-11-10 04:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor dear...life is hard sometimes. I encourage you to read a wonderful book called, "How to Start a Conversation and make Friends". It is an easy read and most informative on this subject. It explaines what makes people like us.
Read the book, relax, and don't be pushy. Friends will come to you.
2006-11-10 12:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about this: did you do something to them that meke them not include you in their plans??? the best thing to do is just have a serious talk with all of them. good luck ,and if they dont want to be your friends anymore then go find other friends.dont waste your time with people like that
2006-11-10 11:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, sweetie, it is time for you to move on and make new friends. We do not know what is going on with your friends, but they are treating you terribly. It's not right. Cut them loose dear, and move on to people who wish to spend time with you. I wish you the best and hope happier days ahead! Good luck. Nana
2006-11-10 11:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some new friends. For some reason, it sounds like your old friends no longer want to be your friend.
2006-11-10 12:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing worn with you- they probably think you might be boring- why don't you throw a pajama night sleepover at your house?
2006-11-10 11:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends don't like you, isn't it obvious why
2006-11-10 12:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋