2006-11-10 03:50:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Apparently you are a spiritual person or the scriptures wouldn't matter. You really didn't go into what the underlying problems are, so I will do my best to answer. Everyone, in every relationship, will argue. Nobody totally gets along 100% of the time. I don't ever want to tell someone they should get a divorce, especially if they have also made that commitment with God. Have you considered counseling through your pastor, priest, Rabbi, etc. ? Maybe you can try to remember why you fell in love with your wife to begin with and try to ask her what happened to those qualities in a loving way. Don't ask her in a mean way, that will only make her defensive and then the walls will come up and you won't accomplish anything. Tell her you really want to talk to her and you don't want to do it in a hostile way. Tell her you just want to open the lines of communication and be honest with each other. Tell each other why you think things are the way they are. If you both are spiritual people, try praying together before hand. Maybe that will help you both stay calm during your conversation with each other. Good luck and God bless.
2006-11-10 04:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy!
1) Stop fighting in the nude.
2) Don't let the sun go down upon your anger.... or your wife.
3) Try talking things through instead of waving your wang around.
4) Scripture is against divorce and states it is only "allowed" due to the hardness of our hearts.
5) Scripture does not tell us to endure abuse. She is abusing you. (Although you must be somewhat willing to allow her to get close enough to do this)
Grow a brain and cultivate some common sense.
2006-11-10 04:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what a third leg mean but you should not be fighting since you know the scriptures say no divorce. What you two need to do is accept Jesus into your life and began to live by the scriptures. Once you do you will began to live according to what God says the marriage is to be. You will began to grow together and not apart. God will began to heal the hurt the was caused and show you things to come. God is your answer to your marriage and He loves the marriage and He loves you. God bless you.
2006-11-10 04:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off any woman who bites your 3rd leg( I assume this is NOT foreplay) should lose all her teeth. Second, I'm guessing you're catholic as you say scripture is against divorce. Well guess which religion has one of the highest divorce rate. Besides you are not going to hell if you divorce her, sounds like you're already there staying married.
2006-11-10 04:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce her anyways. I was against divorce also, at one time, until I was faced w/ it. I convinced myself that God would rather me divorce than to live in hell the rest of my life. And believe it or not, I have not been condemed for it, and am very happy w/ a new husband of 20 years.
2006-11-10 03:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well scripture also says that it is better to live on the roof than in the same house as a contemptuous woman. So go live on the roof!
Either that or bite her boob!
Personally if a woman ever bit my 3rd leg I would knock every one of her F*#king teeth out!
2006-11-10 03:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I assume that by "third leg" you're referring to your penis.
If she's biting you (especially on such a sensitive part of your body) it probably would be a good idea to divorce her (no matter what your church feels about divorce) - you don't want her to bite it off, do you?
2006-11-10 03:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that must hurt. I remember I bit my bf a while back because he kept on sticking it in my face and I was not in the mood. I felt so horrible and never ever did it again, it was just that one time. But if she constantly is doing it then that might be a problem because she can hurt you if she bits hard enough. I dunno if it calls for a divorce unless she is really abusing you, in that case run before she turns out like lorena bobbit.
2006-11-10 03:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by SexyMommy2B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your third leg away from her teeth when you are fighting...maybe you should listen to what she is saying intead of trying to shut her up by shoving your third leg in her mouth. I would bite it too if I were her.
2006-11-10 03:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Janhellyca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling before things get worse. Pray.
2006-11-10 03:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋