I was thinking $50, but is $25 ok?
2006-11-10 03:48:53 · 9 answers · asked by sjbchapman 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
It's more important what the gift is as opposed to how much you spend. For example, homemade cookies or a book on a topic you know is of particular interest to the person would be more personal (as opposed to $ value).
2006-11-10 04:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're giving them thank-you presents? I never did that, and no one has ever done that for me. I would think a thank-you note and a small token gift would be plenty (I did actually have one student give me a candy bar for writing her a recommendation, but she knew how much I love candy). Don't let me discourage you from giving gifts if that's what you want to do or if that is expected at your school, but remember that we know most college students don't have a lot of money, plus you just spent a lot on the grad school application fees and GREs and whatnot.
2006-11-10 12:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by kris 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I work at a university and I have written numerous recommendations for grad school, law school, the Peace Corps etc and I don't expect thank you gifts and I don't believe that my colleagues expect them either. I generally prefer a note from time to time that keeps me apprised of the student's decisions and progress. Did you get in to the program of choice? How are you enjoying it? Would you be willing to speak with other interested students etc.
2006-11-10 12:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by DLamitie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A thank you card is all that is required. As a teacher, I enjoy hearing from my past students--hearing how they are doing in their programs, what advice they could give to my current students (has a terrific impact on the current students), and what their future plans are. If you want to give a gift, I would suggest spending very little--save your money for school: if you feel compelled, an apple is always nice :-)
2006-11-10 13:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by j14456um 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best gift you can give is a thoughtful hand written thank you note. If you want to include a little gift as well that might be ok but don't spend too much otherwise it might seem strange.
2006-11-10 12:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A thank-you note will suffice. If you feel you must give a gift--give something homemade, i.e. cookies, brownies, etc. Ethically, a professional should not accept money for a recommendation.
2006-11-10 12:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may need their help again, and if you give them a gift, and ask for another rec in the future, you have effectively bribed them. A note is sufficient, but not necessary. Gift giving in different cultures has different protocols, in the USA culture, I think it is probably inappropriate to give them a gift.
2006-11-10 13:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by jacob b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't spend any money. Just send them a nice thankyou card or take them to dinner.
2006-11-10 11:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's the thought that counts doesn't it? i guess 25$is okay as long as it doesn't seem cheap. and not something so overrated.
2006-11-10 11:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by dumdeedoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋