my friend is pressuring me to go out and i don't want to
2006-11-10 03:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by staffbull 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think you're not passing any opportunity in your life if you dont want to go out on friday nights.Maybe you're an introvert person or not a partygoer.Use your friday in other great things, watch movie in your house, or chat with your friends, read a good book.I just want to clear to you that whatever you want or don't want in your life, its up to you, anyway you are the one who will be happy or not on what you wanted or not wanted to do.But trying new things is not bad, maybe it could be cool to you but you just not think it right now.Just do whatever you want but don't outcast yourself to the point that you dont want to socialize to other people, its not good and unhealthy.Hope I help you somehow.Thats all.
2006-11-10 04:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
INDIVIDUALITY!!!!!!! We're not made the same as any other person on this planet (except of course if you're a twin then there is a certain degree of similarity but still not total) therefore our interests - likes and dislikes - hobbies - pleasures - etc are all totally different! Humans are amazing in that we are the most complex creatures EVER!!! So what if you dont like goin out all the time (i dont either) but you may take pleasure in doin other, maybe more constructive things. Dont make yourself do stuff that you feel you have to if you dont enjoy it. Find out what you do enjoy, experiment with new things instead of getting stuck in a routine of 'nights out' and relying on the presence of others to give you joy. It's a sad place to be, believe me, when the main source of pleasure is limited to a handfull of activities. Your're a unique INDIVIDUAL - go make the most of it, however you choose to ;)
2006-11-10 12:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by blue_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who are extraordinary people by definition can not be ordinary. You most certainly do not have to socialize more than you are comfortable or go out in order to "get a life". My theory is that people who have to go out all the time are searching for something. You might already have obtained it or don't need it.
2006-11-12 22:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mere Exposure 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is for doing exactly what you want with it.
Life passes you by if you're not enjoying it - cuz then its pointless.
However, its easy to become lazy - seize the day and all that. I try to keep a mentality when i make a decision, of, what if i die tomorrow - would i regret not doing that?....Its a great way of motivating yourself.
2006-11-10 11:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by huvgj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, it's not passing you by if you're doing exactly what you want to do with it.
2006-11-10 11:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rhapsody 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are outgoing, some people are not, but you will never find out what you are missing if you don't try.
2006-11-10 12:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by WISE OWL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't.
you don't have to go out every night. butif you stay in ALL the time, you might want to think about why
2006-11-10 11:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. most true worthy socializing goes on at work. geta job sir!
2006-11-10 11:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life isn't passing you it is what you think that matters nobody else
2006-11-10 11:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by lutamicra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at warp speed
2006-11-10 11:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by COCO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋