I am a girl. The other day me and my friend were messing around. When suddenly we started talking about sex. (She had never asked her mom about it) So we droped the subject and started to play doctor. It was going fine tell she pretended I was doing a preg. test. Before I could quit she pulled down her pants (and mine) and she sat her vaginia on my pubic bone. I was feeling pleasure. Then she started to rub up and down and we touched vaginas. She slipped a finger in my anal. I was feeling pleasure. Then she had to leave. That night I felt so guilty. Did I lose my Virginty? Am i a lesibisain? And should I tell me parents.
2006-11-10 03:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is serously true. Please don't judge me i am already full of guilt. :(
2006-11-10 03:41:50 · update #1
I have one more ?s it normal to want to have sex when you are 10? You dont have to answer my first ? please answer this one now,
2006-11-10 03:57:37 · update #2
mmmm how old are you? and you wont be pregnant if thats why you are asking this in the pregnancy forum! i dont know what to say perhaps you and your friend were just experimenting doesnt mean your a lesbian!
oh my god you are only ten!!
2006-11-10 03:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by mummy of 2 boys and a princess x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doesn't mean that you're a lesbian, you guys could just be experimenting. The reason why you felt pleasure probably was because it was your first experience sexually. You guys did not have sex so no you did not lose your virginity. There's no reason to feel guilty, there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian if that's what you end up becoming, who knows you might end up liking boys and experiences with them too.
In this day and age it's getting pretty normal for children that young to think about sex. You're growing up and trying to figure out yourself and what feels good, it's a natural curiosity. Just be open with your mom and ask her about sex, you don't have to tell her that you want to have it but you can ask questions.
Please please if you decide to have sex, use protection! There is a lot of people out there having unprotected sex and that are carrying diseases that THEY don't even know about not to mention the possibility of getting pregnant. Be careful and responsible but wait until you are ready to have sex not because someone pressures you into it. Good luck!
2006-11-10 04:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if this is a real ?-
1. You didn't need to give details, you could've just said you and your friend messed around.
2. I don't get "she pretended I was doing a preg. test."
3. You have to figure out on your own if you are a "lesbian" or not. Are you more attracted to girls than guys? How old are you?
4. You are still a virgin until you have penis in vagina sex, technically.
5. I don't think you should tell your parents.
2006-11-10 03:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Jenn♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I think your friend knows a lot more about sex then what she lets on. I think you should be careful what you are doing because you are in fact still just 10 years old.
It is prefectly normal to start experiencing sexual feelings for the first time. Your hormones are kicking an and making your body more sensitive.
You are not a lesbian for what you did. You have not lost your virginity either. Do not feel guilty for your actions, i just wouldnt do it again until you are older. Remeber you are still a growing girl.
If you feel comfortable telling your parents and asking them about sex and individualism the do, but in my opinion, just make sure that you dont go with boys until you are old enough.
Remember, discovering yourself and learning about your body is normal. Sex with boys underage is not a game and something you dont want to get in to yet. Respect your body and it is always okay to ask about things if you are unsure. X
2006-11-10 04:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I have no idea how old you are, but my guess is your a teen. do not feel any guilt what you did , most young kids experiment about sex. We all have good feeling when we are touched in certain places of our body, however the "anal" is not one for me, but whatever you like. If you feel strongly about girls and it continues there is nothing wrong. Do you like Boy's has a boy ever touched you and you felt the same pleasure or more ? Take Care Be Safe and Clean
2006-11-10 03:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to experiment if it isn't hurting you or someone else. Most people do. You're whole life is an experiment. I wouldn't feel guilty unless you are uncomfortable with the situation and need to talk about it. Then, of course, talk to your parents if you want. Talk with your friend about it too. See how she feels about it all and find out how you feel about it. It doesn't mean you're a lesbian unless you want to label yourself as one and that you decide you don't like boys, only girls. And, you didn't lose your virginity because you didn't have intercourse.
2006-11-10 03:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Daisey04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR still a virgin,,,,,now about being a lesbian, if it was just an experiment and you didnt enjoy the experience then your not gay, but if you do it again and you like it then you are gay. dont tell your parent just yet there are some things they dont need to know right away.....biggest question is did you enjoy what the two of you were doing?
2006-11-10 03:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not lesbian. You are too young and that was just an experiment. Its normal to think about and want sex cause you are just coming out of your childhood.
Forget about the incident and don't feel guilty.
2006-11-10 04:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by star_unknown1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean you are a lesbian...it could mean you are bisexual though, or maybe it just felt good. And no, you did not lose your virginity...the only way you can lose it is if a male sticks his penis in your vagina. You do not have to tell you parents, but you can if you feel you need to.
2006-11-10 03:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you did not lose your virginity and you are only a lesbian in you continue to practice these things with a female. I suggest you tell your parents becuase this girl learned this behavior somewhere. In the future you should put questions in the proper category.
2006-11-10 03:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your virginity is not lost and you're only a lesbian if your attracted to girls and not boys. When I was younger I experienced with girls, it can be just a phase. You're parents may make a bigger deal out of it then needed, only tell them if you feel absolutely necessary.
2006-11-10 03:47:02 · answer #11 · answered by Scrappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋