can you detail your thoughts
2006-11-10 03:39:57 · 19 answers · asked by dannni 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I think all people could stand to learn a lot of things. People's personalities are so different that you can't say men are one way and women are another. There are no personality traits that are inherent to or more prevalent in either sex and that is the truth.
Women are NOT better communicators than men and that is a fact. NO ONE can multitask. Women are NOT more nurturing or emotional than men. Women are not better than men. Men are not smarter than women. Men are not better drivers than women. Men are emotional and sensitive and nurturing and that does NOT make them feminine. Women are aggressive and sexually driven and that does not make them masculine nor are they "acting like a man" when they behave that way.
I can't stand this f'ed up need to put people in boxes! Why is it so scary to allow people the freedom to be themselves?
2006-11-11 08:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by bored 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many many things I learned from a woman, some bad, some good, but everybody learns from each other, men or women: So, they can teach us a lot of things but they can learn a lot from us, or can somebody tell me I'm wrong?!
2006-11-10 04:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by [e$° 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What emotions really are, and how to deal with them instead of just opening a beer to forget them.
That life is about more than just themselves.
How to solve a problem rather than make it worse or just forget about it.
That other people DO matter.
That other people have feelings which CAN be hurt
That women are willing to make sacrifice that men could not understand.
2006-11-10 03:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can learn about the importance of communication, multi-tasking skills, other things too. Sadly, as more and more women think they need to be/do as men, the list is growing shorter as to what differences of value that they have to offer.
2006-11-10 04:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To want to take care of people and be proud that you did.
That's it's not always about beating (as in winning) someone else.
What you say and how you say it effects other people negatively, even if it wouldn't effect you.
You don't know everything.
But, a lot of men already know this, and some women don't.
2006-11-10 05:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by KeM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compassion. Intimacy. Trust. I think they learn these from a one on one relationship with a woman. I think we learn how to speak up for ourselves, to take it easy and not take things so seriously, and to have fun.
2006-11-10 03:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I could learn how to convince somebody else to go to work to support me, stay at home and watch oprah and doing chores here and there and then nag and complain when my spouse doesn't want to help with the dishes after working 10 hours so I can stay home and do nearly nothing.
2006-11-10 05:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How to love and be nurturing.
The bible says husbands love your wife. Wives honor (respect in some translations) your huband.
We are the nurturers of the world. That's why it can seem like they are boneheads....
2006-11-10 05:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding? Hate to break it to you, but men and women are equal.
2006-11-10 03:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Greg S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patient love making.
2006-11-10 04:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋