Well you see I don't really smile back at people who smiled at me. For example I go into a clothing store the salesperson will welcome me with a smile & I will just nod my head but in my heart I am smiling it's just that I can't really show it.
I also don't dare to smile at guys whom I think is cute. It isnt about my smile, my friends told me I have a nice smile because of my deep dimples.. But I just don't have the confidence! I've been told by some of my friend's guy friends that I'm proud looking because of my straight face..
2006-11-10 03:34:11 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
dont smile unless youare an airhead and/or shallow. stay deep and mysetrious. its a special gift that you have. dont ever lose it
2006-11-10 04:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by military and veteran advocate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like a confidence thing. I personally was not and am still not the most confident person but I have grown up alot. When I was in college a guys stopped me once and said your too pretty to always be looking down at the floor. This caught me by surprise because I never realized I did that. As I graduated college and am now in a different place in life I believe I have a new found confidence but I still keep to myself. I also have been told by men that my "keep-to-myself" persona is an attractive quality, it's actually how I met my fiance. I understand your issue you feel you should smile and that's ok if your doing it for yourself. All throughout high school people mistakenly took my shyness/"keep-to-myself" persona as stuck up and bitchy! Unfortunately people do judge a book by its cover but as long as you know your happy that's all that matters. If you want to wear it in the form of a smile for everyone to see once and a while that cool.....but if not thats ok too just do what makes YOU happy!!
2006-11-10 11:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Queen, youre going to think I'm stupid, but practice in front of a mirror. If someone smiles at you, just practice smiling back and keep practicing until it is a habit. It will improve your confidence and you don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to. We have way too much in this life to be serious about. Making others feel better by smiling is one very small way to make things seem a little more plesant. I wish you so much happiness that you cant' help but smile! Good luck Queen. Nana
2006-11-10 11:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
=) last time i think i don't really smile much. But i still smile =). but when i was 13 years old i started to smile every single minute,hour and day. I told myself, when you are always smilling, people will notice you that you are always smilling. not only that, you yourself will be more happy and cheerful as well as they will more friendly to you. and yes. it works. since then, i always smile. even now my friends always said " hey, why you always smile?" i will just laugh. laughing and smilling do helps alot. Especially when you have deep dimples that will make you look sweet. i really want to have dimples, but i am not that lucky to have . so appreciate it =D Just tell yourself every single day " SMILE SMILE SMILE" and "laughs". hope it works
2006-11-10 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try to make it a habit! If someone smiles at you, smile back! Don't be afraid to show that you are happy.
2006-11-10 11:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by lainey101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
always be in the middle of the two so you dont smile too mush and you also make sure that your not to be named straight face
and remember somthing nice or have some one funny to go wit you shopping
2006-11-10 11:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by $ebala 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you smile, it seems like you have confidence. it is also reassuring to the person that smiled at you.
2006-11-10 11:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by radicalalto 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
watch alot of mr.bean or charlie chaplin movies.
2006-11-10 11:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by zainul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to have funny friends!!
2006-11-10 12:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋