My parents won't let me see my mom just because I have been e-mailing her.She lives in arizona and I never get to see her and now I will probably never hear from her again.Should I move out and live with somebody else?
2006-11-10 03:31:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's better to obey your parents. I think a lot of important reasons to make your parents try to separate you from your mom. May be something bad happened in the past that you shouldn't known yet, or something bad of your mom that will hurt you if you know. Whatever, as well as they love and care to you, why do you want to leave them. Please be careful to decided, don't wrong to choose that will make you suffer. Think about your future. I think your mom will be happy and pleased if you can get good future with your parents.
2006-11-10 03:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are Adopted, and you found out who your birth mother was and have been in contact with her. How did you fins out? If your adoptive parents told you where and who she was, then they should know that it would only be natural for you to want to see her at some point. If you are a minor though, you owe your adoptive parents the respect as your parents to let them raise you as they always have without fear of a biological parent who gave you up to re-enter your life and perhaps cause a rift in their discipline methods for you. They have raised you all these years with no help from your birth mom and you owe it to them to just keep your contact with her on a correspondence level and when you turn 18, then if you still want to see her, then you can go to her and hope that the relationship is everything that you are dreaming it will be. Alot of times it is not.
As for you moving out and living with someone else............bad mistake.
Who would you go live with? Your birth mom? What if that goes bust? Then you have burned your bridges about moving back home with your parents.
Please think long and hard about this before you do anything that you might regret later. You only have a few more years before you can legally go find her....please wait.
2006-11-10 13:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By parents, you must mean your dad and step-mom.
There is no harm in e-mail, unless it is being used to spread untruths.
I have no idea how old you are or what the situation was during your birth parents' divorce. There may be issues of which you are not aware. You can always wait until you are 18 and are legally allowed to go see her and continue to e-mail for the time being.
Sounds like there is some bitter/old baggage in there somewhere and you are stuck in the middle of it for the time being. Deal with it best you can and try to stay in contact with your Mom, even if it has to be long distance for a while.
2006-11-10 11:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't right for your parents, or step-parents to keep you from your mom, unless they feel that she would harmful to your well-being. I know how it is, I haven't seen my biological mom since I was 4 and my biological dad since I was 3. Parents can be over protective at times, but they are trying to look out for your best interest, unless they are purposely trying to keep you from her. I'd ask your mom to fight for custody of you. if you are old enough to move out, then yes, move out!! You have a legal right to see your mom. If you are old enough, file for an emancipation.
2006-11-10 11:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by midnightwolf99_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are at least 18 u can do anything u want---and if u are a minor child---then u will have to live by their rules until turning 18
2006-11-10 12:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are 18, you can do whatever you want but until then, you need to respect your parent's wishes.
2006-11-10 12:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by angieb1008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad keeps grumbling about how to pay my college fees, and he won't let me go out to work for it either, then wat the **** else am I supposed to do? pluck money off trees?, for my bro it's no problem, a damn servant follows him everywhere, and for me, even a fees is a problem
2006-11-10 11:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some reason they don't want you to communicate with her. You must learn why, and then determine how to react to that.
2006-11-10 11:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i will, mymom is the coolest person in the world so ican't even imagine not be able to talk to her
2006-11-10 11:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an adopted child? Otherwise your question makes no sense.
2006-11-10 11:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋