Pregnant by my fiancees brother?

Question

i love my fiancee very much, we have been together for nine years and i wouldnt change him but i am sleeping with his brother....its juist sex after all but now im pregnant with his baby and i know its his becaus emy fiancee went away with work for three weeks.
my fiancee's brothers wife is also my best friend, shes amazing and they have kids togther, so all 4 of us are usually always out together which makes it worse but the sex is so amazing....i dont love him but i cant seem to stop myself sleepin with him and now i'm pregnant and i am goin to have to lie to everyone and say its my fiancees....but his brother may know its his....i'm stuck please help

Answer 1

Awsome.. Congrats..

Nice way to Ruin 5 lives because you can't keep in in your pants.. You must be very proud..

-HtJ

Answer 2

1) stop paying your brother's child support! 2) CFPS will go after him for the money, one way or the other. They'll garnish his paycheck, or withhold from his state and federal tax returns. they have plenty of other means at their disposal as well. Therefore, by paying for your brother's child support, you are not really helping your nephew, since CFPS can force your brother to pay either way. The only thing you are accomplishing is "enabling" your brother to act like an irresponsible teenager, not as an adult. Enabling people to willfully dodge responsibilities isn't "helping" them no matter how good your intentions are. 3) If you believe your nephew is in need of basic things like food or clothing or medical care, then you need to contact his mother and make arrangements with HER. She would know better than your brother would. 4) If your brother is having trouble making payments and meeting his basic living expenses at the same time, then you should encourage him to do the right thing and make his CS payments FIRST. Once he's done that, then if you feel he could use a little money for gas or groceries, then that's OK, as long as you don't do it on a consistent basis. Your brother needs to learn to manage his own affairs, and stick to a reasonable budget, he has no incentive to do that if you keep bailing him out. 5) You fiancee is absolutely right. Your financial priorities seem a little bit confused. It is illogical to help someone else when it means putting your own family in financial risk.

Answer 3

Oh dear, there's not really a lot you can do about this, I take it that you want to keep the baby. If I were you I would tell the father of the baby as I don't think that you should have to face this alone, after all it's his responsibility as well. You may not love the guy and you say that its only sex, but you obviously do not respect of like either your fiancée or your best friend either otherwise you wouldn't have done the dirty like this.

As you kept it in the family so to speak the chances are that when the baby is born is going to look like your fiancée so you could get away with it if you really had too. But are you going to keep going back to your fiancée's brother, if you are then you need to break things off with your fiancée because that just isn't fair.

However if you love your fiancée, maybe you should just tell him, and hope that he forgives you, and then maybe the two of you could consider moving away from them so you are not tempted again. However if you reveal all the chances are that you are the one that will be the outcast as they say that blood is thicker than water and the chances are your fiancée will forgive his brother but not you and you will be out in the cold. Bottom-line is you need to seriously think about what you have done and what you can do to solve it

Answer 4

I am still stuck on the fact that you have been somebody's fiance for 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9 YEARS! What level of committment do you even have going on if you have manage to avoid getting married after 9 years!

You have managed to create a starring role in your own hillbilly drama no doubt. You will devastated your fiance, his relationship with his brother, his brother's relationship with his wife, their relationship with THEIR children, you and your sister-in-law's friendship, and your child is basically his own aunt/uncle/cousin as well. And for what? Cuz, you couldn't help "bumpin uglies" with your brother-in-law? You need to tell the truth and stop the insanity. You have taken a wrecking ball to everybody's lives already, including your own. You are a very selfish woman: think about your child for a change. I don't mean to be mean, but you need tough love. You have a BABY coming!

I will pray for you and your family.

Answer 5

Oh my my, what a tangled web we weave. That was no excuse to have sex with his brother just because he was away working for 3 weeks,pleaseeeeeeeee. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot and he did that to you? You don't love him or else you would not have done that to him. You just flat cheated on your bf and his own brother has betrayed him and then in the process of all that, the brother cheated on his wife. She is NOT your best friend, that is for sure, you are her enemy as you had sex with her husband. With what you and him has done, this could very cause their marriage to go down the drain. I know if I was her and I found out about you and him, I would never want to see you again and more than likely walk out on him as well. And your bf...well I can't blame him if he was to walk out on you too. This is going to cause hard feelings between him and his brother. You are better off coming forward with everything now and getting it over and done with now. The truth is going to come out sooner or later anyway. He is also going to wonder in the nine years that you have been together what you have been up to and as you have stated, you have been with the brother more than once. You and him both really do deserve losing it all, but I also think that you and your little cheating lover have destroyed two family's instead of one. GET A LIFE and not the brothers life!!!!!!!!!!



Well well well I now see that you are really getting around now as I just went and read another question of yours that you just posted. So now you are having sex with your uncle as well..........oh and this time you are using condoms....don't you think you are just a bit to late for that........you know what girls like you are called..........now who really is the father of the baby? or do you even know..........are you even pregnant..........

Answer 6

Ha you don't have a problem at all, all you have to do is nothing. Just do nothing. Keep sleeping with your fiancees brother and have the baby. It will all blow up, when it does you can probably still sleep with the brother.

You don't love the fiancee and he'll be out of the picture, the family will hate your guts. Butthen you can be selfish out in the open. Doesn't that sound like fun??

Answer 7

It's not fair to the baby or to the fiancee who thinks it's his baby. They both have a right to know who the real father is. If you lie now, the truth may come out later and hurt everyone a lot worse than if you tell the truth now. Do the right thing and sit him down and explain it to him, he has a right to know.

Answer 8

Are you sure it is not for your uncle
you said that sex with your uncle is great, sex with your fiance brother is great, so what about sex with your fiance
and if you are pregnant how many man will need to be taken DNA test
this is the first time I think an abortion is in other
because girl you are trash and this child will have so much problem
for the child mental health please put him/her for adoption
Girl go see someone a professional to see what is wrong with you before you end up with an STD

Answer 9

This is the first time I've ever said this, but boy, do you deserve it. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA. You don't want advise, you don't want us to tell you what to do, you want to find a way to stay with your fiance, keep your best friend, and do her husband, your soon to be brother in law. Seem a little twisted to you??? Why even CONSIDER marriage if you're already not staying true to the one you "love" Stop being so selfish. You are no friend, no true love, the only thing you are in this is an affair, and trust me, when it all comes out, as it will, that's all you'll be remembered by. :( Either tell the truth now, or prepare for a lot more crap than you ever imainged. Leave the guy your with and let him find true love unless you're now willing to be faithful to him, and APOLOGIZE to him and "your best friend" Man, I'd hate to see how you treat your enemies. :( I'm sorry I'm being rude, but this game you're playing, if it's even real, is RUDE and SELFISH and RIGHT DOWN WRONG on every continent, in every culture, and every religion.

Answer 10

you need help???

i would never want to give someone this low helpful advice
all i can say is you get what you deserve. You will lose your best friend, your "f uc k buddy" and your fiance' not to mention ruining your best friend, your "fu ck buddy" and your fiances lives. Great job. They are so lucky to have you in their lives.

I think driving your car off a cliff is the best idea.

i also feel bad for the " f u c k buddies'' and your best friends kids. They have now a cheating piece of s hi t father as well as a w h o r e in the family. I'm sorry who will now be out of the family

Answer 11

Contact Jerry Springer